Bachelor party anxiety

ReneeJacob · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelor party anxiety : I thought that was why you choose this pic. Oops! I have a dirty mind.
Posted by NatesGirl16[/QUOTE]

Lol so has everyone assumed I have a cat jerking it in my siggy?? I assure everyone that Tommy is waaaay too lazy to do anything of the sort. I will have to look for a better picture of him <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-tongue-out.gif" border="0" alt="Tongue out" title="Tongue out" />

pixiedust84 · October 2010

Ok see I had this well thought out response written way in the beginning of this thread then Fi came home and I got all distracted and now I'm that girl coming in late again! This is why I just can't keep up on here - I'm too easily distracted!!

Annnyways... I agree - have some wine with the girls. You'll be okay :-) I totally understand the feeling but honestly most of the guys I know find Strip clubs kind of funny and uncomfortable. Even if he thinks it's fantastic he still thinks you're better than anyone there.

heyimbren · October 2010

I know I'm a little late to return but....

I think it's good that you're okay with it and figuring out what you can do to occupy yourself. But to clarify, I don't think the conversation needs to go:
Girl: "No strippers ever!"
Boy: "Why are you telling me what to do?"

When BF and I talked about it, I just told him why it made me uncomfortable but that I wouldn't make rules for him either. And he understood and went along with it, I think I probably feel the same way Katie does.

katiewhompus · October 2010

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[QUOTE]I know I'm a little late to return but.... I think it's good that you're okay with it and figuring out what you can do to occupy yourself. But to clarify, I don't think the conversation needs to go: Girl: "No strippers ever!" Boy: "Why are you telling me what to do?"<strong> When BF and I talked about it, I just told him why it made me uncomfortable but that I wouldn't make rules for him either</strong>. And he understood and went along with it, I think I probably feel the same way Katie does.
Posted by heyimbren[/QUOTE]

Exactly. I never told Scott "No you can't have strippers", I just told him why it would be a big deal for me and he decided that seeing naked dancing women wasn't worth it. I think we all have things that we compromise, it's part of relationships. It just happens that this is one of my big things.

vegasgroom · October 2010

Nothing wrong with a little hookers and coke on the bachelor party.... oops I mean he'll probably just be baking cokies with his boys. LOL j/k :-)

BecW2be · October 2010

This thread reminds me of The Hangover, when the bitchy wife is telling the dentist why strippers won't be tolerated. Not that that's how I think you're behaving, but it just reminded me of that!

leah2b · October 2010

Sounds like you trust your FI and beleieve he wouldn't do anything innapropriate - just feeling a bit jealous and insecure about him feeling physically attracted to another woman (justifiable -we all go through that). As one of the previous posters noted, there are plenty of other times that a man may feel physically turned on by another female - watching a sex scene in movie, porn, walking down street, see a SI cover, whatever. It can't be helped - it's a part of human nature. There may come a time that another man evokes feelings like that in you. Also, no matter how much we want to, there is no way to control another person's mind and feelings, so it's a wasted effort to try to do that.

Just remember that what matters is the whole package - not only is he attracted to you but he loves you for many other reasons and is devoted to you. This is what sustains love through the years, even when we get old and wrinkly and are certainly not as physically attractive as we were in our youth. Grab at least a bottle of wine and enjoy some time with a friend or doing whatever makes you happy. Or, try something new that will take your mind off worrying - go for a mini adventure yourself!

JennaV26 · October 2010

I've been to strip clubs. Trust me when I say unless he's going to some high-class club, I highly doubt the dancers will be sexy enough to arouse that much of a reaction in him.

No offense to someone who may have been/currently is a stripper but I think strip clubs are romanticized in a way that makes women feel intimidated when really, the girls on stage just look like everyone else only they're wearing g-strings instead of jeans and t-shirt.

JennaV26 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_bachelor-party-anxiety?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:d2ecca30-29a8-48c4-a609-b9fda96e0328Post:dd412bda-de41-4b07-9393-2379a3a03633">Re: Bachelor party anxiety</a>:
[QUOTE]Does anyone else find it ironic that the cat in your siggy (your cat?) appears to be whacking himself off? No? Ok, maybe it's just me, then.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

hahahahahahahahahahahaha!

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