I'm watching this Truelife "newlyweds" episode. Has anyone seen it? One girl married a guy and had never ever been to his house. They never discussed finances (i.e. how much he/she makes to support their lifestyle verses debt). I sort of couldn't believe it? Before FI and I even got engaged, we said can we afford to be married? Did anyone else feel they wanted to start their marriage knowing EVERYTHING about their future spouse? I mean, those that do not live with their FI currently (those of us who do live with them usually have a better idea of who the person really is, lol).... Did you guys talk about finances and who would be in charge, did you spend time with FI at HIS home to see how he acts (i.e is sloppy or neat freak?)
Wow this got long. Lol. I'm just amazed at how some people go into marriage totally blind.
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