I just started planning my wedding and have a VERY clear picture of what I want. Every time I talk about what I want to have with my mom it seems I can't win and if I disagree with her I'm a b*tch. She hates the idea of having a photo booth, a band, the non almond wedding cake, crystals with all the flowers, ext... The last wedding she went to was about 25 years ago and hers was over 30 years ago, but she thinks I should do everything how they did it back then. Even having 4 bridesmaids seems to be a huge issue and outrageous, as she only had 2. Even me wanting to get ready at a hotel seems to be an issue. It has gotten to the point where I don't want to talk about wedding stuff or even think about anything wedding. I don't know what to do.