I went to manage one of my gift registries today and noticed a few items that were purchased. One of the purchases was from my fiance's mother-which come to find out was supposed to be my bridal shower surprise that she told him about.
Should I tell my fiance what I found out or just wait until after the bridal shower? I don't want to upset him but I did not intentionally go in to spoil any surprises...is that the down side to knowing who got you what item?? Anyone else deal with something like this? I refuse to keep secrets in my relationship but I'm not sure how to handle this. Thanks!!
Re: Viewing who purchased a gift online
You found out about a surprise. Big deal. It's not some life-altering event. Keep quiet about it and act surprised.
[QUOTE]Okay, yeah, you should be honest with your significant other but I think you're going to extremes here. You found out about a surprise. Big deal. It's not some life-altering event. Keep quiet about it and act surprised.
Posted by hlq2011[/QUOTE]
Agreed. If your FI gets upset over something like this, he might need to rethink his priorities/emotional control.
282
208
74
0
[QUOTE]Jill - I know Pottery Barn and Williams Sonoma do. I don't think BBB does, though.
Posted by hlq2011[/QUOTE]
Amazon does, too. I don't think BBB or Macy's do, or at least I haven't figured it out.
[QUOTE]Jill - I know Pottery Barn and Williams Sonoma do. I don't think BBB does, though.
Posted by hlq2011[/QUOTE]
Darn. Not that I wanted to look and see who has gotten me which gifts or anything(that's a lie, I have a registry stalking problem)!
282
208
74
0
Yeah, don't look at your registry for maybe a month before the shower or you can't help but ruin the surprise. But it's not a big deal. You registered for the stuff so it wasn't going to be that big of a surprise anyway.