Hey yall,
Hoping to get some good advice! FI and I recently (finally, with much hair-pulling) finalized our guest list. Or so we thought.....
Just recently a friend from college contacted me asking for my address so she could send me a wedding invitation.
Here's the sitch: we were reasonably good friends in college, haven't really kept up since then other than running into each other at events with mutual friends. I don't even know that I have her current phone number in my phone! So basically, I wasn't planning on inviting her.
However, our invitations haven't gone out yet, but we're already inviting more than we feel comfortable with (budget-wise) - what to do? I must admit, we're not having some tiny, intimate wedding where it would be more understandable that she's not invited...
I kind of felt uncomfortable with the whole thing, so I was thinking about just adding her. FI says we should just RSVP "no" and this solves the whole problem (don't you love simple male made-up versions of etiquete?)
So what's the rules around this? Open to any and all thoughts & imputs!