2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.

ILoveToRobot · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : How is that rude?
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

Because he wasn't invited.

lbarr088 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : Every weekend bach party I've <strong>heard </strong>friends going on have been weekend long parties. There's no seperation between the party and the hotel. <strong>A bachelorette party is for the girls and the bachelor party is for the guys.</strong> Would you tag along to your husbands friends bach party? Have you ever gone on vacation with just the girls before? I wouldn't ever imagine it being appropriate to invite my SO even just the hotel. He wasn't invited.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]

<div>OK. </div><div>
</div><div>Maybe in this case that's what they are going for but this isn't true for all. I've known quite a few people that had both sexes go to both.</div>

MyNameIsNot · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : I just don't like it, I don't know. I'm not from a large city so maybe that is why. It just freaks me out.
Posted by Kimmyznc[/QUOTE]

<div>She's an adult, and you can't make this decision for her. </div><div>
</div><div>Did you come over and check out the neighborhood before she bought her house/rented her apartment and told her where and when it was safe for her to be walking around alone? Do you call her to make sure she doesn't walk out to the parking garage alone after work? </div><div>
</div><div>She is the one taking this risk, not you. You are not her mother or her guardian. It's up to her to determine what she is comfortable with, not you.</div>

crash2729 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:0b18b09a-b788-4ba2-8600-3220e63e272b">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : So you would travel an hour and a half for recreation but not for a bach party of a wedding that you're in? I've gone further for much less... I don't get that. I get your whole "so what" type attitude about OP's situation but can't you see it at all from her point of view?<strong> Someone is bringing their boyfriend to a bach party.</strong>.. that's strange but also rude. <strong>The other is bringing a mom and a baby.</strong> If that were my situation I probably would've stayed home but if this were a friend of mine with the condition I'd try not to let it bother me. Plenty of people travel for bach parties especially Vegas. If someone finds it an inconvenience they usually won't go. I don't think it's within reason to make her feel bad about having a destination bach party. It's not like they're going to Italy or something for christs sake.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]<div>No.He's not coming to a bach party. He's going to vegas.</div><div>The other is bringing a her mom to watch the baby because she doesn't want to be 4 hours away. </div><div>I don't understand the train of thought that a four hour drive is not a long way. </div><div>That's a really long way plus gas?

If I was a BM in a wedding I would seriously consider not going to the bach party if I was going to have to drive for four hours.</div><div>
</div>

MyNameIsNot · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:bc43abe8-5760-4a08-9aea-d4052c222099">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : Every weekend bach party I've heard friends going on have been weekend long parties. There's no seperation between the party and the hotel. A bachelorette party is for the girls and the bachelor party is for the guys. Would you tag along to your husbands friends bach party? Have you ever gone on vacation with just the girls before? I wouldn't ever imagine it being appropriate to invite my SO even just the hotel. He wasn't invited.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]

<div>The whole city is not her bach party. The hotel that the girl rents with her boyfriend is not the bach party. </div>

ILoveToRobot · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : <strong>OK. Maybe in this case that's what they are going for but this isn't true for all.</strong> I've known quite a few people that had both sexes go to both.
Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]

Yes, I've known of this too. I should've said "usually" or something like that. It definately sounds like it wasn't intended to have anyone but the girls go.

crash2729 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : Yes, I've known of this too. I should've said "usually" or something like that. It definately sounds like it wasn't intended to have anyone but the girls go.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]
OP can't bar everyone from the whole city of Vegas. Who cares if they go? It's not like they plan on hanging with the girls. <div>
</div><div>I mean really, do you think the BM's mom is going to bring the baby down to the club for some drinks?</div>

lbarr088 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:876ffec5-0533-46ed-bad4-52c34cc0e64b">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : Yes, I've known of this too. I should've said "usually" or something like that. It definately sounds like it wasn't intended to have anyone but the girls go.
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]

<div>Yup, but the girls ARE going so I don't see the issue in this. The non-intended people are only going to "ruin" the weekend if everyone makes a big deal out of it, its not like they will be there holding everyone's hand. I understand it wasn't what people had originally planned for but plans change and people invite people who weren't expected. You can either roll with it or make a big deal and ruin the party over it. I'd say roll with it... better chance OP will actually have some fun ;)</div>

ILoveToRobot · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:8a0c091d-ef5d-4a2f-8e55-4d934b0e3000">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : No.<strong>He's not coming to a bach party. He's going to vegas</strong>. The other is bringing a her mom to watch the baby because she doesn't want to be 4 hours away. <strong>I don't understand the train of thought that a four hour drive is not a long way. That's a really long way plus gas?</strong> If I was a BM in a wedding I would seriously consider not going to the bach party if I was going to have to drive for four hours.
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

I see it completely different. Take a trip I went on with my girlfriends for example. We went for a week and hung out all week together. We ate all our meals together, we drank together, we got ready together, we went out together... basically we did everything together because we were on vacation together.

If I had brought my fiance on the vacation and stayed in a seperate room than the other girls it would have taken away from some of the things that we did. Like, late night shenanigans, getting ready etc... I mean if the girl had been planning on getting a seperate room from the beginning I might see where it wouldn't really matter that much but she was planning on staying in the room with the other girls.

It's definately not something to get crazy about but it would bother me if someone brought their FI to my bach party. We see it different ways whatever.

Four hours can be a long way, yes. I was addressing eagles about not driving an hour and a half for a bach party... her train of thought on that was strange to me.

crash2729 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Look at you, you have a baby... In a bar.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]
The difference is that one was on the tit.

It made it more acceptable...apparently.

crash2729 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:938373ff-40f0-4e23-8ba0-682ceec5bd6d">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : I see it completely different. Take a trip I went on with my girlfriends for example. We went for a week and hung out all week together. We ate all our meals together, we drank together, we got ready together, we went out together... basically we did everything together because we were on vacation together. If I had brought my fiance on the vacation and stayed in a seperate room than the other girls it would have taken away from some of the things that we did. Like, late night shenanigans, getting ready etc... I mean if the girl had been planning on getting a seperate room from the beginning I might see where it wouldn't really matter that much but she was planning on staying in the room with the other girls. It's definately not something to get crazy about but it would bother me if someone brought their FI to my bach party. We see it different ways whatever. Four hours can be a long way, yes.<strong> I was addressing eagles about not driving an hour and a half for a bach party... her train of thought on that was strange to me.</strong>
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]
I don't know if I would drive for an hour and a half either. <div>It just depends.</div>

AdeleDazeem · March 2012

I found his proposal in Tiffanys to be ...horrible. Oops.

lbarr088 · March 2012

ILTR- I highly doubt you did everything together I mean, shower... bathroom??

I WIN.

ILoveToRobot · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:3d7dd420-1061-4dae-b26c-d782847761c3">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : OP can't bar everyone from the whole city of Vegas. Who cares if they go? It's not like they plan on hanging with the girls. <strong>I mean really, do you think the BM's mom is going to bring the baby down to the club for some drinks?
</strong>Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

HA! No, I said that if I were the one with the baby and I felt that uncomfortable I wouldn't have gone. Then I said that I wouldn't worry too much about the baby if it was my friend who had the condition. The issue I was addressing mostly was the boyfriend. I just think it's rude to bring him.

ILoveToRobot · March 2012

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[QUOTE]ILTR- I highly doubt you did everything together I mean, shower... bathroom?? I WIN.
Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]

You'd be suprised at what happens in Mexico!

ahhhitsshannyn · March 2012

Have none of you guys ever gone on a girls weekend before? Like robot said, you hang out for the whole weekend. If you share rooms, then yes Edie, you obviously do everything together, what else are you supposed to do? Say you are going to the pool alone to have your down time? That's odd.

It's a logistical nightmare to get everyone together in Vegas, especially if now there is going to be three separate hotels involved. It's not going to be the carefree easy weekend that OP had hoped for. Yes, it's not the end of the world, but I can understand how OP might be a little down about it.

lbarr088 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : You'd be suprised at what happens in Mexico!
Posted by ILoveToRobot[/QUOTE]

<div>Lol. Yikes.</div><div>
</div><div>Shannyn - Honestly, I'd probably be weirded out by it and I am not saying OP shouldn't be upset. However, being upset isn't going to change anything. I'd at least be happy everyone could make it and make the best of the situation since that's the only situation she's got. That's just me and I'm weird.</div>

Meegles4 · March 2012

First, OP, you should have lurked a bit and realized you can't really just post here to "vent" and not get opinions, which will in many cases differ from yours.

Second, I get the whole "OP can't own the city of Vegas" thing, but I also understand the point of girl's weekends. And that this was probably intended to be that. So I'm on the side that yes, I'd side eye it if someone brought their bf or 9 month old baby. Because if I was either of those people, I likely would have declined the b-party.

But, even with those things in the mix, I agree these aren't issues and you gotta let it go. They also definitely aren't issues you should be "venting" about to a board full of strangers. Talk to your family, FI or girlfriends about it. Not strangers.

ahhhitsshannyn · March 2012

I agree with you rach. It's not (hopefully?) like the bride demanded Vegas. The BM's and MOH presumably all decided on Vegas, so that's where they're gonna go.

Kimmyznc · March 2012

Holy moly!! Ok let's see.... I would not complain to the actual people involved because I feel bad, hence why I came to strangers to get it off my chest

Obviously not the best idea of mine. I would not be offended in the least if they simply could not make it. Last year we went to a girl's bachelorette party (yes, in Vegas and yes, the one who now has the infamous baby) and a few could not make it for some of these reasons. I never said if you can't make it you suck and you're not my friend. So I don't see a problem with a destination bachelorette party. And in conclusion, my MOH has sent them a shedule of what we will be doing... Friday night: show & dinner. Saturday: Pool party. Saturday night: club. Sunday: goodbye Vegas. I would not be rude to these people about it and I thought this would be a good place to air it out. I thought that's what this board is for. And I knew I was going to get opinions and feel that I have not been rude back to anyone... unless that's just me being wrong for the 500th time today

RupertPenny · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:c6e0fdc0-01b1-41ae-9aa4-ce25f15924d7">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]Here's my thought on destination parties like this. Sometimes that's what you HAVE to do. Not saying that is what OP is talking about, at all. For instance, I had six girls come down for the past weekend. Two were from 4 1/2 hours away, two were an hour away, and the other two were 5+ hours away in a completely different state. So we (really they) all picked a spot that was atleast somewhat in the middle. In that sense, I think picking a destination place is okay, because, y'know, you have to. Idk, obviously I'm biased, but I find the hatred towards picking a destination place to be a little much. I've known a ton of people who have travelled to Vegas or Dallas or some other big city for a bachelor party. If everyone is in agreement and can afford it, I don't see what the issue is. (not necessarily saying that's what OP did, just stating my opinion on the matter)
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

<div>This is me too. My bach party was actually in DC, so it was not a vacation for me, but it was for 4/6 of my bridesmaids. But we are spread from Orlando to Boston, so DC was in the middle. In town bach parties are great, but it isn't that easy when your friends and family are spread out. </div><div>
</div><div>Anyway, I'm way late but I would be kind of insulted if my friend was "worried" about me staying in a different hotel. I'm an adult, I live in a big city, I know how to handle myself when drunk. But I also have an independent streak a mile wide and am easily offended by this stuff I guess. I went to central Europe by myself when I was 22 and I got all pissy when people expressed concern that I would be killed by a serial killer in a hostel. </div>

RupertPenny · March 2012

Shiit I am really late to this. They really need to fix this post sorting BS.

ahhhitsshannyn · March 2012

But you could have been KILLED anna! I would have worried about you, but I also worry about everyone about everything. I don't even like to go to the grocery store after dark.

Viczaesar · March 2012

None of those are a problem. That's just life. People will do what works best for them. They're already doing you a big favor by going to Vegas for your bachelorette party, don't be pissy about them doing what they can to offset the cost.

Kimmyznc · March 2012

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[QUOTE]But you could have been KILLED anna! I would have worried about you, but I also worry about everyone about everything. I don't even like to go to the grocery store after dark.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

I have my doors locked at all times... I get the worry wartness from my father & it's always in full swing. She's a young/attractive girl going to a hotel room by herself after drinking in Vegas. I think there is something a little worrysome about that. But I guess everyone (obviously) has different opinions.

Kimmyznc · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:61b29165-dd45-45a1-922e-ea29aacdc939">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]None of those are a problem. That's just life. People will do what works best for them. They're already doing you a big favor by going to Vegas for your bachelorette party, don't be pissy about them doing what they can to offset the cost.
Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]

Besides the 1st thing I mentioned, the other 2 things make it more expensive. Now my cousin is splitting a room with just her bf instead of 3 other girls. And the friend's mom is now booking her own hotel room for her and the baby. I am once again, not being pissy to them about a thing. I know it's something I need to get over hence why I'm on here and not complaining to them or trying to make them change anything.

Viczaesar · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:dd313a63-25fa-457c-ba01-bb01d884cce3">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : Besides the 1st thing I mentioned, the other 2 things make it more expensive. Now my cousin is splitting a room with just her bf instead of 3 other girls. And the friend's mom is now booking her own hotel room for her and the baby. I am once again, not being pissy to them about a thing. I know it's something I need to get over hence why I'm on here and not complaining to them or trying to make them change anything.
Posted by Kimmyznc[/QUOTE]
It's their choice if they want to spend more money. Like I said, none of those things are problems.

Kimmyznc · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_2nd-post-in-an-hour-im-on-a-roll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:36c7aacb-58f4-4017-a171-9cb228fde4caPost:61b29165-dd45-45a1-922e-ea29aacdc939">Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll.</a>:
[QUOTE]None of those are a problem. That's just life. People will do what works best for them. They're already doing you a big favor by going to Vegas for your bachelorette party, <strong>don't be pissy about them doing what they can to offset the cost</strong>.
Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]

That is why I mentioned the cost. I don't care how she spends her money but I didn't want it to sound like I'm mad because they are trying to make it cheaper.

cbvcru67 · March 2012

This is kind of bizarre to me. I actually kind of feel bad for the OP.

One - for some people, a four hour drive isn't that big of a deal. My friends and I take road trips all the time - Nashville, KC, Chicago. If someone asked us to drive together to one of those cities (all about 5 hours away) to attend a bachelor party, I woudn't be all up in arms. Sure, being a two or three day event makes it more difficult to find time on my schedule, but the distance wouldn't discourage me from being there. This sounds like something that is normal for this group - I don't think she is selfish then for having this type of party.

Second - I think it is weird to make plans to attend someone else's anything (party, weekend away, wedding, bbq, whatever) and invite your own guest without checking with the host. The question isn't whether or not the entire city of Vegas is off-limits, the question is, will having the boyfriend or mother present with their group change the dynamic of the event in one way or another? The answer is yes. You're being incredibly obtuse if you can't see that.

What is going to happen when the boyfriend whines about being bored or eating dinner by himself when the girls are going to go out - will she invite hime along or forgo those plans to placate him? Or what if Grandma and Baby want something to do during the day and think lounging by the pool sounds lovely - will Mom tell them no, they need to stay by themselves at their own pool, or invite them to join your group? I think when you commit to a weekend away with the girls, it should be a weekend away with the girls. If that isn't your thing, maybe you should just decline.

Logistically, having everyone spread out at multiple hotels and getting to the same place at the same time makes me think of herding cats. It would be much easier if everyone (including the uninvited guests) were at the same hotel. I think you will have a lovely time, OP, but I don't think you are wrong to be frustrated or disappointed - as long as you don't mention your concerns to your friends, I think you are OK to vent here.

staceycaine · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: 2nd post in an hour... I'm on a roll. : They don't have to. I'm just not comfortable with a girl by herself in a completely different hotel. <strong>And I don't have the money or I would</strong>. It's not like I'm mad at the girl about it. Ah, just venting it stresses me out.
Posted by Kimmyznc[/QUOTE]

<div>If you don't have extra money (maybe $100 to make up the difference in the two hotels), why are you having this big bachelorette party? If money was that tight, I'd have declined or had a girls' night at home. </div>

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