May 2012 Weddings

We have yet to get...

A single "no" response that we didn't know was coming. The only one we have gotten is from my cousin who is graduating from the Air Force Academy a week after my wedding.
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  • We have yet to get any "no"s!

    We still have more than half of the replies that we're waiting on though.

    FI said he's not surprised that people are coming because we did invite family, and very close friends and they've known about it for a while, but I expected someone to have something else planned for that day/weekend!
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    [QUOTE]We have yet to get any "no"s! We still have more than half of the replies that we're waiting on though. FI said he's not surprised that people are coming because <strong>we did invite family, and very close friends and they've known about it for a while, but I expected someone to have something else planned for that day/weekend!</strong>
    Posted by cpm1223[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>This too. </div><div>
    </div><div>I mean, in the end it's not a huge issue but we're going to totally blow the food budget.

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  • It seems people who are 'no' wait till the very end to RSVP no. Out of our 131 guests 46 have said yes and 12 have said no. We know of about 20 more guests who won't be coming because they told us. There are a lot of graduations on our wedding day preventing several guests from coming plus the others are unable to afford the trip to the wedding.
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  • We have 2 no's so far. Both of which we expected to say no.
  • I have also received 2 no's. One was my cousin's fiance, they are getting married in June, live in California, and he has a young son from his previous marriage and he has his son that weekend. His ex-wife got really crazy when he started dating my cousin and will never switch a weekend for him. They originally picked a dae not on his weekend and they had to move the wedding because of it.The other if from my mom's sister. I figured she woudn't come but whatever. :)
  • I just checked the mail, and we only have a few no's and a giant stack of yes's! LOVE IT!!
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  • We are having a desitnation wedding, and therefore quite a few no's.  It hurts the heart a little to get them, even though I fully knew most would not come.  Still for a destination we have about 40 total coming, which is perfect for us!
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  • I agree, I think a lot of the "no" people are waiting to send theirs in.  Maybe they want us to think that they had to take a long time to make the difficult "no" decision =]
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  • We got our first random no today.  It is a local friend with no explanation.  Kind of wierd.  Other than that, we've had some OOT people say no, because of the expense and travel and the no kids rule.  Plus, a lot of our friends are coming without their +1s.
  • We have about half of our RSVPs back with about 15 nos. All but one of them was expected that one is still a possible yes. It's FIs cousin she will be very pregnant by the wedding so depending on when the baby decides to show up they might be able to make it. Yay for yes's it's so exciting!!
  • We havent had any no's.. beyond a friend who let me know before I sent the invites out that she couldnt make it (lives on other side of Canada). We have a few that we are expecting to say no.
    Right now I am going a little crazy because our RSVP date is the 1st and almost half our guests havent replied!
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    [QUOTE]We got our first random no today.  It is a local friend with no explanation.  Kind of wierd.  Other than that, we've had some OOT people say no, because of the expense and travel and the no kids rule.  Plus, <strong>a lot of our friends are coming without their +1s.
    </strong>Posted by kimberlykh[/QUOTE]

    <font face="Times New Roman" size="3" color="#000000"> </font><font color="#000000"><font face="Lucida Sans"><font size="3">Ours too, isn't that odd?  </font></font></font><font face="Times New Roman" size="3" color="#000000"><font face="Lucida Sans">Four RSVPs of couples came back as just one attending.
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