My post was not intended to be drama , a rant, or directed at anyone in particular. This board began as one for MOB's and MOB's and we did well here. We discussed our situations, and welcomed posters who needed input from women like us. Then, the knot changed the boards and the posts changed, and I'm ok with that mostly (except that I miss my friends, many whom have disappeared). And I can handle the mom questions...I get we are not all fabulous.
But, now we get many of the other kind of posts...Bridal Party drama. Can I fire a BP member? The BP won't do what I say. The BP isn't throwing me a shower, or the right kind. The BP isn't doing t Bachelorette, or the right kind....etc, etc, etc.
It just makes me wonder...when did it all change? Why all the focus on all these negative details instead of the joy of the day? At the end of the day, will it REALLY ruin your wedding if your MOH is wearing different shoes, or your BM has a different hairstyle? Really?
That's all....
My baby girl is a married woman...and now my baby girl HAS a baby girl. Time unfolds in such an amazing way. I've been blessed!