So, here's the deal:
My fiance and I have spent way too much time on the issue and it would be nice to have some advice from people who are not emotionally invested. My sister is gay and doesn't wear dresses. She is more of the butch type versus the barbie type. I have asked her to be a bridesmaid and said that she could wear a matching suit instead. She can't be a groomsmen as my fiance wants just his guys on that side. It's his wedding too and I respect his wishes. She doesn't feel comfortable with my idea on what to wear. I want her in the wedding but I don't know what to do. thoughts???