So, we found out that my FH's children will not be allowed to be in the wedding per the ex-wife. She hasn't really said why but it is what it is. We are not even sure if she will allow them to come to the wedding. I'm not asking any questions about it because this has really hurt FH's feelings.
We were planning on doing a sand ceremony with all of the kids. Now I am torn if we should just to it with the two of us or include my children, who will be in the wedding.
I don't want it to look like we are not including the children. But I don't want it to look, to his family, that we are leaving his kids out.
What to do?? And of we don't do the sand with the kids, what should we do?
And the whole time, my future husband was in the room......