If this has already been addressed elsewhere I appologize...
I've been hearing a lot of feedback all over the forum that if a guest has a Significant Other...Ettiquite requires they be invited as well. I agree. But my question is where do you draw the line on who coutns as a SO?
Husband/Wife/Fiance are obvious...but what about the more gray areas like people who are dating? Particularly when you have a Low Budget wedding you and your FI (who's still in college) are paying for yourselves and your guest list is already pushing the budget because you're both Italian and your families are huge.
We'd feel really bad saying "no dating couples" mainly because FI's sister and my niece are both pretty serious with with their BF's. FI wants to make the "rule" no one's who's been dating less then two years but I don't feel that's fair because WE'VE been together less then two years!
And the wild card in all this (and pretty much the reason FI thought up that rdiculous two year rule) is one of FI's Groomsmen who is dating a psycho b*tch he's broken up and gotten back together with repeatedly. FI has already informed him privately that we need to limit guests and +1s will most likely not be allowed. He's still giving us a hard time over bringing her to our wedding. Even after another groomsman (not at our behest and with much less tact) has basically told him that he's being a jerk and an idiot.
I don't think it's right to make exceptions for some people and not others but the sad fact is some folks will always be more serious while some are still feeling out the relationship so...feedback? Where have you all drawn the line if you've drawn it at all?