Our wedding is June 22, a very busy time of the year, my fiance just doesn't get it, he thinks we don't have to book or plan anything now and wants to wait, because he wants to pay for the whole wedding but he doesn't understand the importance of at least reserving things ahead. my mom and I have booked this site for the ceremony and reception and he didn't understand why I explained that everywhere else was already booked and we got the last spot at this site. He got over that, now we had found a caterer and he wanted to wait on that, my mom called them and found out that they had already booked up for that day, but he squeezed us in since our ceremony is in the morning. When it comes to the traditions (garter, flowers, etc) he says why do we have to have those and why do you have to buy your dress your only going to wear it once. Now that i am down to the wedding favors, invitations and flowers, i am leary on even planning for them beacause i am dreading the response. I just don't understand why he is acting like this, He is excited for the wedding he is always talking to his friends about it and how wonderful i's going to be but when it comes to me not so much.