tk confessions!ayg??

Nebb · January 2012

My work load is still really light and I'm avoiding filing 2011 crap so entertain me. Confession? It makes me really sad that my engaged RL friends won't post on here (adamantly)- I'm curious to see what type of poster they'd be and how they'd interact with everyone.

[Deleted User] · January 2012

I said my TK confession yesterday, about hating the party "no one will ever be as excited about your wedding as you" party line.

For some reason, I'm finding a lot of stuff to be annoying now on TK.

Blueyed228 · January 2012

The PoB stuff yesterday bugged me. Get over it, they threw out their dresses, its not a law that says you have to donate them.

Nebb · January 2012

I don't get why its a big deal that they weren't donated because omg some sick/military/poor people need those dresses. No they don't, no one NEEDS a wedding dress. It is a total want, plain and simple.

MRSBJS · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:2c28bda7-6208-4335-99ee-377ca7fbc0a1">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]The PoB stuff yesterday bugged me. Get over it, they threw out their dresses, its not a law that says you have to donate them.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

What does PoB mean?

ETA - also, TK confession - I've been seeing alot of interesting discussions lately, like the one that started yesterday about the Native Americans, etc. I enjoy reading them but don't post much because I don't want to come off stupid, since I don't know alot about things like that.

dmiller9274 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:31b97463-bb7c-4d32-81c0-4d02da987a2f">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]I said my TK confession yesterday, about hating the party "no one will ever be as excited about your wedding as you" party line. For some reason, I'm finding a lot of stuff to be annoying now on TK.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
I pretty much hate all of the TK party lines. If I care enough about someone to attend their wedding, chances are I'm not going to judge and bitch about some stupid breech of etiquette.

maratea · January 2012

I am annoyed when a poster asks about buying BM gifts and says something about getting everyone the same type of jewelry and having them wear it to the wedding and everyone else jumps in and goes 'Nooooooooo, don't do that. Not everyone likes pearls/diamonds/other types of jewelry'. You know what, STFU. If you don't like the damn jewelry, don't wear it after the wedding. The bride doesn't technically have to get you anything in the first place. And if I hear one more "Shop like it's their birthday", I'm going to stab someone in the hand. Weddings aren't birthdays. Shop like it's their birthday... when it's their damn birthday.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · January 2012

Okay, I just saw that chick in that PoB thread from last night who said she used her old underwear as dishrags. Whatthefuck.

[Deleted User] · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:4076399f-f732-454c-874c-513a684f1367">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : I pretty much hate all of the TK party lines. If I care enough about someone to attend their wedding, chances are I'm not going to judge and bitch about some stupid breech of etiquette.
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

The other one I really hate is "no one will even notice" when someone is bitching about a tattoo or hair color or drunk guest or whatever they don't like about a member of the WP or family.

All etiquette issues aside, it's a BS line. I will totally notice the head-to-toe tattooed BM, or the GM with bright green hair, or the trashed cousin acting a fool. Acting like these things are invisible just because it should be about the B&G is just dumb.

Wiscisbliss · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:b3632ccd-0d41-4108-a641-879df48eb51c">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]I am annoyed when a poster asks about buying BM gifts and says something about getting everyone the same type of jewelry and having them wear it to the wedding and everyone else jumps in and goes 'Nooooooooo, don't do that. Not everyone likes pearls/diamonds/other types of jewelry'. You know what, STFU. If you don't like the damn jewelry, don't wear it after the wedding. The bride doesn't technically have to get you anything in the first place. And if I hear one more "Shop like it's their birthday", I'm going to stab someone in the hand. <strong>Weddings aren't birthdays. Shop like it's their birthday... when it's their damn birthday.</strong>
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

This made me smile.

I think that buying something that BMs wear to the wedding is OK, as long as you think that they'll like it beyond that. I've gotten some awesome BM jewelry that I wear quite often.

reddy123 · January 2012

Eye to eye, mara. I cannot stand that line. I'm not getting my BM's a "birthday" gift for my wedding, sorry. My BM's did nothing for my wedding, so they can wear the dresses and necklaces I bought them and be happy, or not. Me buying them a necklace for my wedding is not the end of the world.

Also? Why the hate on pearls? I like pearls.

chelseamb11 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:29ea20d7-eba2-4214-ad60-6abe85f9c03d">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay, I just saw that chick in that PoB thread from last night who said she used her old underwear as dishrags. Whatthefuck.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

Yeah I hardcore side-eyed that. That is just plain gross.

Nebb · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:29ea20d7-eba2-4214-ad60-6abe85f9c03d">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay, I just saw that chick in that PoB thread from last night who said she used her old underwear as dishrags. Whatthefuck.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

That reminds me of that poster last year who in a period thread said she plays with "it" and judged everyone for not being curious about their bodily functions. Might have been here or on E, I think it was about divacups?

Celles · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:18ebb6fb-1750-4609-af69-3c1a8ecb9b5c">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : That reminds me of that poster last year who in a period thread said she plays with "it" and judged everyone for not being curious about their bodily functions. Might have been here or on E, I think it was about divacups?
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I'd repressed that thread. Thanks Nebb!

pixiedust84 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:4076399f-f732-454c-874c-513a684f1367">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : I pretty much hate all of the TK party lines. If I care enough about someone to attend their wedding, chances are I'm not going to judge and bitch about some stupid breech of etiquette.
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

I agree - it's easy to judge the crazies on here but IRL we go to weddings of our friends and loved ones. Chances are we forgive them some faux pas. I've been to weddings with all sorts of TK no nos and still had a great time.

True story - I went to a wedding that started an hour and a half late, had a cash bar, had to cut the reception short (because it was so late) so we moved it to a totally different place halfway through. I still loved it because it was my dear friend marrying the love of his life. I may judge that same scenario written out on TK but IRL they're my friends so whatevs.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:18ebb6fb-1750-4609-af69-3c1a8ecb9b5c">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : That reminds me of that poster last year who in a period thread said she plays with "it" and judged everyone for not being curious about their bodily functions. Might have been here or on E, I think it was about divacups?
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

OhmyFUCK.

Also chels - did you see how her last post was all "oh ahaha I was just joking!" Nice try, dumbass.

pixiedust84 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:18ebb6fb-1750-4609-af69-3c1a8ecb9b5c">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : That reminds me of that poster last year who in a period thread said she plays with "it" and judged everyone for not being curious about their bodily functions. Might have been here or on E, I think it was about divacups?
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Wait what? What is the "it" here? (Please tell me it's not what I think, please tell me it's not what I think...)

dmiller9274 · January 2012

Sesh, I totally agree.

reddy123 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:112a0e41-bf52-4c16-9a1f-5c08c71a75dc">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : I'd repressed that thread. Thanks Nebb!
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

<div>lol, ditto this, totally forgot about that girl.</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: duds, no way, really?! (I believe you, just not that she's still posting)</div>

maratea · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:18ebb6fb-1750-4609-af69-3c1a8ecb9b5c">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : That reminds me of that poster last year who in a period thread said she plays with "it" and judged everyone for not being curious about their bodily functions. Might have been here or on E, I think it was about divacups?
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Yes, periods are a bodily function but it's expelled waste. That'd be like playing with your poop. Sure you can be curious about these things, but there are other ways to educate yourself besides hands-on lessons. Gross.

Nebb · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:546fdd10-4647-406f-bab4-e3c7b422b407">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : Wait what? What is the "it" here? (Please tell me it's not what I think, please tell me it's not what I think...)
Posted by pixiedust84[/QUOTE]

Blood

I vaguely recall that she wouldn't wear anything and let it run down her legs and that's why they had hardwood so it was easier to clean.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:45a3d48d-84fe-4f90-83f6-f4720cc16275">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : I agree - it's easy to judge the crazies on here but IRL we go to weddings of our friends and loved ones. Chances are we forgive them some faux pas. I've been to weddings with all sorts of TK no nos and still had a great time. True story - I went to a wedding that started an hour and a half late, had a cash bar, had to cut the reception short (because it was so late) so we moved it to a totally different place halfway through. I still loved it because it was my dear friend marrying the love of his life. I may judge that same scenario written out on TK but IRL they're my friends so whatevs.
Posted by pixiedust84[/QUOTE]

I generally can't get too ruffled by etiquette no-nos at a wedding unless I really don't care for the bride or the groom to begin with. I think it's fine if people go out of their way to make sure they do every last thing properly - but also? It can be exhausting. All of the weddings I've been to have had some serious TK etiquette offenses and I've had a blast at most of them. I mean, shiit. It's a wedding. It's a happy time. Relax, have fun. Don't have a coronary over a cash bar or a dollar dance, ffs.

MRSBJS · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:546fdd10-4647-406f-bab4-e3c7b422b407">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : Wait what? What is the "it" here? (Please tell me it's not what I think, please tell me it's not what I think...)
Posted by pixiedust84[/QUOTE]

umm..no it's what you think. Try unthinking that.

lbarr088 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:29ea20d7-eba2-4214-ad60-6abe85f9c03d">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay, I just saw that chick in that PoB thread from last night who said she used her old underwear as dishrags. Whatthefuck.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<div>I definitely want to eat off those dishes. </div><div>
</div><div>My mom has used old men's undershirts as rags. She cleans/bleaches them then uses them for Old English wood polish spray, etc. But not dishrags. Ew.</div>

AllAboutTheBenjamin · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:6b8ca624-f373-4778-9b55-2d4fcef3c426">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]Nebb, I think that was NikkiVegan from E about the period stuff.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]

I flat out don't really care for her. She flipped out one day and went on and on about how just the thought of eating meat makes her shake and cry. She's crazy cakes.

reddy123 · January 2012

I side-eyed jemmini's response at the end of the negative knotties post where she admits to being overly bitchy when giving advice on WP:

"I always think that if someone is being a twat and doesn't know it, if they get completely reemed for being a rude asshole, then maybe that will wake them the fvck up."

well okay then.

pixiedust84 · January 2012

Oh.My.Goodness that is freaking disgusting.

chelseamb11 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:8396c339-9ce1-467a-ac98-42cff5699f78">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : OhmyFUCK. Also chels - did you see how her last post was all "oh ahaha I was just joking!" <strong>Nice try, dumbass.</strong>
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

Haha yes I did. I repressed my urge to reply with the bolded. That jsut seriously grossed me out.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:262403eb-0f98-4315-bc1d-770734fba08f">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : Blood I vaguely recall that she wouldn't wear anything and let it run down her legs and that's why they had hardwood so it was easier to clean.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Wtf is wrong with this woman?!

MRSBJS · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_tk-confessionsayg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:85781159-8bcf-4bfc-af70-a2061e192131Post:34ee6487-33c7-40ad-820d-3da2eb0493b2">Re: tk confessions!ayg??</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: tk confessions!ayg?? : I definitely want to eat off those dishes. My mom has used old men's undershirts as rags. She cleans/bleaches them then uses them for Old English wood polish spray, etc. But not dishrags. Ew.
Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]

My mom used to do that too with the undershirts - I clearly remember dusting/polishing the furniture as a kid with my dad's old ones.

ErinG93 · January 2012

I didn't think it was NikkiVegan that was the period girl. I am probably wrong, though.

tk confessions!ayg??

Re: tk confessions!ayg??

Choose Another Board

Search Boards