I just started the planning process and I refuse to believe that I need to spend $30,000 (which my fiance and I do not have) to have a fun, and beautifull wedding. Please send me your best money saving tips and amazing and yet affordable vendors. Thank you
Re: Need your best tips.... I am drowning!
You CAN indeed have a wedding for less than $30k .. but it will depend ... what area are you looking in and about how many guests are you planning for?
Without knowing that....
Many venues are less expensive for a daytime (or a Sunday) wedding than for evening ones.
All of the photographers I looked at had packages that allowed you options based on your budget.
I prefer real flowers, but many people save by using silk flowers, or by doing their own. If you're doing your own, pick a friend who is not in the wedding to do it for you (the night before). : )
Don't do a full bar....you can offer just beer/wine/champagne or just have a "signature cocktail"
Let us know where you're looking...
Oh ... congratulations!!!
I agree with RoMy215. A lot depends on your guest list and venue. I think your budget is reasonable. Mine is very close to yours.
Ways to save money-- don't do guest favors at all (because nobody really wants them anyways).
Keep your guest list low--like 150 or less if possible. This will make a huge difference. My guest list is about 120.
Great vendors I found so far:
My venue is wonderful--The Long Beach Museum of Art (a bit more than I wanted to spend but I still feel they are very reasonable for an ocean view)
Love, Love my florist Bride and Bloom Flowers (she really "gets me" and my style. Prices are reasonable)
I am getting my rental items from Signature Rentals (linens) They are really cheap!!!
I also found a great deal on my dress by going to trunk shows. I highly recommend that!!!
Hope that helps
-Have your wedding on Friday or Sunday
-Cut down the list, in other words have a smaller wedding maybe 75-120 guests
-Do buffet style
-No open bar
-Have a lot of DIY projects i.e. invitations, Save the dates (STD's), Menus, Table Number/Names, things like that.
-Find cheaper vendors, I extremely recommend "Commerce Flowers" they work on your budget and make flower arrangements just like you imagine them.
-Skip chiavari chairs...I know they look beautiful but other chairs or chair covers look as beautiful once you see everything together.
-Have a smaller or not bridal party. At the end is a bunch of drama and extra gifts you might buy for them. So I say cut that!
I know there's more, if I think of anything else I'll post it later. Hope this helped! Good Luck!
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Our venue includes 2 statioary appetizers. I was debating about doing some passed ones as well, but based on the fact that at many of the weddings I've been to, I've enjoyed the appetizers so much I've hardly been hungry for dinner, we're not doing any passed appetizers. So really think about how long people will be waiting in between the ceremony and the reception. You don't want to starve anyone, but this is defininitely an area where you can save money.
Don't get a desert in addition to wedding cake. Some of the venues I looked at charge a cake cutting fee but will waive it if you don't get another desert. Also, we're going with cupcakes. (Buttercake Bakery is good and only $0.75 p/cupcake!!! I think we're going with Vanilla Bakery which is a little bit more, but REALLY delicious!)
I totally agree w/ElleFirst1980 about forgoing favors. Unless there is something meaningful/special....it's just extra $$ that is going to get left on the tables.
Oh and take your time and do your homework. Don't feel pressured to have everything in place because "everyone wants to know".
[QUOTE] Ditch the candy buffet. They add up. Beside, my venue would charge me $2/pp additional for just having one. Then you'll need apothecary jars, other jars, candies, etc. My favor cost me no more than $3/pp.
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$3 a person for a favor is steep, IMO. We did a candy buffet for less than $1.50 based on my estimates (I sold my jars after the wedding), and I had over 100 bags of candy!<div>
</div><div>IMO, it's all about shopping smart ;-) I raided sales after xmas and V day, which helped a lot (75% off, etc.)</div>
Seriously, spend the money on what is important to you and skip the other stuff. Have fewer attendants. Less hassles and less flowers, gifts you have to buy.
Find a place that has chairs that fit the decor so you don't need chair covers. Skip the stretch Limo, just get one for the 2 of you.
Don't invite the world to your rehearsal dinner. People have started including out of town guests and that drives the cost up. As an out of town guest I have learned to skip the rehearsal dinners, (saving the bride $$) and I explore the town with another guest. The dinner is mostly for the couple and their friends, it is boring as a relative to attend. If you have to have a rehearsal dinner, make it short, your bar bill will be smaller. You can have the dinner before the guests hit town too.
My invites came from Vroman's in Pasadena, custom done in shop. Very, very reasonable.
Skip the guest hotel goodie bags or if you must, use local items from California only as a theme. I got polka dot recycled bags from Michaels at $1.99 each and added Crystal Geyser water, organic strawberry lemonade, Sunmaid raisins, California almonds from Cost Plus, California Chips, small size California wine, Calif. made bars from Berkley(can't remember the brand), Giardelli squares etc. Could also do some fruit but you would have to purchase that atthe last minute and I didn't have a last minute. A mini friut basket would be cute too.
I bought favors from our destination wedding location with the logo on them and just set them at each place, no decor needed.
I did my own escort cards and place cards on the computer and used the tent style that came in sheets. Used my own photo for save the dates at Fedex/Kinkos. Did notes on my PC for the gift bags, paper from Staples as they have a nice little scallloped edged card you can use. punched a hole in the corner of the card and tied with a ribbon to the bag.
I didn't want table numbers so I used photos of places important to us and put them in a frame from Walmart. Walmart was the only place I could find frames in quantity
for the style I wanted. I can reuse the frames to send a photo of us to family members who couldn't sttend.
We used a restaurant but didn't have music. Restaurant is much better quality of food for half the cost. Planned to go clubbing afterwards but I am old and I was tired.
Got Sand Ceremony stuff online from Amazon.The have nicest selection. If you are having a sand ceremony ask me about it first! Got my knife and server from Knot.com, engraved and it was so nice I can't believe it for very little cost. I got the one with the solid metal heart shaped handle and it is lovely.
Keep a book of all your notes in 1 place. Don't skip signing contracts with your vendors and have them write every little detail down. Like for your DOC if you have one, write down that you expect her to have a hankie if you sneeze or that you expect them to be able to think on their feet. They take all your money in advance and then can do what they want . (Some)
Shop around for all of your vendors. Never, ever get just one bid for a job. Weather it be your flowers or your cake or your reception, your make up and hair --everything! It's very important that you get to know the market in the area before you start writing contracts.
Silk flowers vs real flowers: for whatever has to be made ahead of time and will be lying around for awhile, use fake flowers. No one will care that your wedding trees have fake orchids in them--seriously. And they'll look just as good on camera as the real thing.
Use craft store coupons every time you go to the craft store to do your DIY stuff. If you don't have your coupons, just don't go there that day. When you're spending hundreds of dollars on diy projects 40% off coupons free up money that can be used elsewhere.<--This is a tip I am still following now after I have gotten married. It has saved me hundreds of dollars decorating the new house.
For your dress: If you must have a designer gown, find a good seamstress first. Pay her a little extra and have her go with you to Glamour Closet. I am dead serious on this one. It's the equivalent of bringing in a mechanic when you buy a car. My dress was a floor sample and the cost of alterations on top of the discounted price ended up being half of what the dress originally cost.
Have a friend take your engagement pictures rather than a pro. If they don't turn out right you still have the option of getting them done professionally, but if they do that's at least $250 or more saved right there.
Decide what is most important to you, and what details are just fluff. There's plenty of "wedding junk" that will be thrown your way as a bride. You are much better off shopping for "non-wedding" stuff that will make your wedding look original. Same thing goes for gifts. Avoid almost all jewelry, shoes and accessories that have the word "wedding" related to them. You can expect mark up of 50% or more on such items. The only time I wouldn't follow that as a rule is when you decide that you want a specific item because it is special. Once you figure out your budget and avoid unnecessary cost, you'll be able to free up some cash for one or two splurges(which is totally okay).
For your candy buffet, take advantage of holiday sales on candy. Especially with candy that is in your colors. Most candy is made to last on the shelves 6 months
or more.
Cruise the weddingbee.com forums and look and see what items brides are wanting to get rid of at a serious discount. I did that with my chargers. I got them for $0.25 a piece.
Just remember, not everything has to be a splurge to pull off a successful wedding.
I DYI-ed our Save-the-Dates, Invites, programs, menus, flowers. For escourt cards, I ran out of time and decided just to go with table numbers. Instead of going with chivari chairs we just went with covered chairs(provided by our venue) and ordered chair sashes in our colors for 69 cents each.
We skipped the pros for our E-pics, and because my DH had a nice big car, also skipped the limo(didn't make any sense). I am also glad I skipped the white asile runner, it would have have totally drowned out my dress.
Places you don't want to skimp are your main course(food), and your music. Skip the dessert buffet and have them serve only your cake. Get a good DJ or a good band. Find a DJ that will also through in uplighting for your event. Extra lighting cost us about $200. Without good lighting the money that you spend on other decor items is totally wasted.