So, my shower is saturday. I understood when some of my college friends (I'm still in college now) said they couldn't make it - it's spring break and a lot of people already had trips planned and that is okay.
Today, 4 people cancelled on me. Via text message. Not one of them gave a real excuse, and one lives in my city!
I'm really hurt and upset. Only one of my college friends, who is a BM, is coming. My other BM won't even be there. I'm so embarrassed now that there are only going to be 12 people there including me and my family. I'm not even excited about it any more
To top it off, I see on facebook that one of the girls who RSVPed no is in my town RIGHT NOW and posting pics with other friends. When I texted and asked her why she wasn't in Vegas like she told me she would be she said she was upset that her friend she planned to go with blew her off so she's here partying for the weekend instead. When I asked if she would be able to come saturday she said no because she already made plans with other people. Seriously.
I don't even know what to say anymore. I feel really hurt and upset and am appalled by the lack of etiquette by these women. 5 of the girls I invited didn't even bother to RSVP at all to begin with.
Clearly these people aren't real "friends". I feel like bridal showers are really important - I have driven 5 hours by myself to make it to them before - but very few are even decent enough to actually show up when they say they will.
At this rate I may as well lower my guest count because I can't count on anyone nor do they care.
Ugh. Sorry this was more of a vent. I'm just really upset and don't want my sister (who has poured her soul into planning this for me) to have to listen to me.