first one!

It'll be exciting seeing this board grow in the next couple of years, haha. My fiance and I have been together for 4 1/2 years, but we are both still in school, he still has 2 years so we are not having our wedding until after that. Your stories?
Re: first one
-long story, i know, and yes, I kind of ruined his surprise, but it was still special
It is nice to know I am not the only one who had experiences like that.
I am so excited to find people who are getting married around the same time as me!!
I was a little bummed out that my fiancee's exgirlfriend (long story) they were still friends for a while after we started dating. Got married 10 days ago ... I felt a little blah about it ... I was worried how he would feel. But he really did not care... so that perked me up.
Her 3 week honney moon to Dubai and Italy and France is getting him down tho... cause we definately can't afford that.
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I am not engaged yet but, like Jennifer, I am still in my undergraduate program and my BF is working on his masters. We have been together for about 2 years and 9 months. We have had "the talk" and know without a doubt we want to get married, its just not financially possible right now. (But he gave me the go-ahead to start looking at things)
I really would love to get to know all of you! I am also worried about backlash so I am mostly just a "lurker", there are so many horror stories about this site that Im almost scared to post.
My name is Jennifer. My husband and I we didn't have the money at first and we didn't want to wait either, so we got married thru the court system. We have been together 10 years, engaged 6 years, and married 4 years. My first marriage was thru court also and I didn't want a wedding anyway. My husband want to give me the wedding of my dreams, we renewing our vows in April 20, 2013 & we want to get married at the beach, and the reception at the same place.
We've been engaged since Christmas Eve 2010. With a new job, wedding planning hasn't been at the forefront of my plans, but now things are settling down and we are starting the process. We've been together a little over 4 years and are planning an April 2013 wedding so we have time to save and prepare.
I'm pretty much a control freak and perfectionist, so I definitely need a lot of time. Plus, I want to do a lot of DIY projects and really personalize our wedding, so the extra time is essential. On top of all that, I want to get more physically fit and in shape. I definitely need at least a year to do that...
So that's us in a nutshell...I look forward to planning with you all!
-Krisha