So while still dealing with FI facing the high possibility of being fired from his job my brother called me today to tell me he won't be able to be a groomsman and be at the wedding at all. He enlisted in the army and has to report for bootcamp at the end of March. So not cool!! I'm proud of him for enlisting but it really stinks that he won't be there. He feels awful about it but I don't think there is anything we can really do.