So, my MOH has been my best friend since forever. She was living quite far away from me when I first got engaged, but has since moved and now lives about 2 hrs away. The wedding is not for another 9 months, and right now, my fiance and I are focusing more on HOW we're going to pay for things, so I have not really had time to think about little details. My MOH, however, feels like I am not including her anything. I picked out my dress when I was shopping with my fiances cousin who was in town visiting, and I thought it would be a good bonding experience between us since I had not met her before and she is going to be my family as well. I wasn't even expecting to find a dress - she just happened to pick it out and I tried it on. So, my MOH was upset about that. Then I recently found my wedding shoes on sale and my Mom bought them for me as a gift. My MOH got upset about that coz she wasn't there when I found them.
I don't know what I am supposed to do here - there is nothing she can help out with right now coz we don't have money to spend until later. I can't have her getting mad at everything I do/buy without her because we aren't around each other 24/7.
Any suggestions?? Has anyone else had to deal with issues like this??