Ok Ladies I'm apparently a bit naive. I thought lap dances were just girls shaking their butts and maybe their boobs in front of a guys face. I recently learned that a lap dance basically involves the girl grinding on the guy. I asked my fiance if he thought that was ok and we ended up having a stupid fight. Apparently lap dances are just a normal part bachelor parties and I don't get it. His response was that he just won't go to a strip club because none of his friends will understand why he's not letting them buy lap dances. (They're going to Vegas for the week)
I don't understand why something that would never be appropriate under any other circumstances suddenly become ok just because its scheduled and paid for. I completely trust him, if he wanted to be sneaky he'd just tell me he wouldn't do it and go anyway. But now I feel like I'm the bad guy. I can either suck it up and say its fine, or I play the bad FI who ruins everyone's fun. (He's had about 1/2 dozen guy friends married in the last two years all who went to strip clubs and got lap dances) Any thoughts/opinions would be appreciated.