So a little back story. I have two girls in my bridal party, my sister and my BFF. I gave them both the title of MOH because they are both very important to me and with only two girls I didn't see the need to make one more important than the other. This also worked well since my sister lives 1000 miles away and isnt really available to help with a lot of things.
My bachelorette party is supposed to be this weekend. The date has been set since before thanksgiving since my sister had to make travel arrangements and work around her school schedule. They told me it was going to be just the three of us and we were going to do something fun but wouldn't give details. I later came to find out that they wanted to take me to Vegas, but my BFF had a huge leak at her townhouse and was short on funds. My sister rearranged her travel plans to come home instead of Vegas and my BFF was going to plan a fun girls weekend. Well, I come to find out today that my BFF cant get a babysitter for her kids and is going to be basically unavailable. My sister feels HORRIBLE because she didn't make a back up plan. I just don't know what to do in this situation.
I am super disappointed about my bach-party but I know I can get over that. What I am more upset about is my BFF flaking out. This isn't the first thing that she couldn't make because of her kids. She was over a hour late to my shower (that she was co-hosting) because she needed to pick up her kids. I LOVE her children and when I ask my BFF to help with anything wedding related I assume that they would come along since I know it is difficult for her to find child care. I know she feels bad but I don't think she understands how much it hurts me. I dont know what to say to her or how to even bring it up. We have been friends for over 15 years and I don't want to jeopardize that...
203 Invited so far!
142 Are ready to party!
61 Will be missing out!
0 Are MIA!