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beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:b1a8ba10-6229-448d-a544-8789607df8f8">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Were people flaming saltypeanut or friendlypeanut?
Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

Both, kinda. Except people are more referencing Salty's flaming in the past, whereas friendlypeanut is currently a tacky, foolish weirdo.

alixzafiris · March 2010

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[QUOTE]Where does all the random love for SaltyPeanut come from today?
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

Yeah, that :)

salt78 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:e5ac23c0-b5cd-4ccc-a997-b7fe59c74c82">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]whereas friendlypeanut is currently a tacky, foolish weirdo.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

<div>*snort*</div>

beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:e1171566-2d0b-4a4b-bde4-7d5919a220e6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Where does all the random love for SaltyPeanut come from today? And that was on page like...2. So why are we still talking about it? She was flamed for coming into the end of FFF's and posting randomly. At least that's what I read?
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

*raises hand*

I didn't log on today until FFF was at page 4 or 5, so I missed the initial mention of SP. And I've always thought it was common for people to say they actually like someone who is being flamed, as long as it's not the actual flamee who's saying they like themselves. Actually, that's quite common too nowadays. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" title="Undecided" />

TheSaltyPeanut · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:e1171566-2d0b-4a4b-bde4-7d5919a220e6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Where does all the random love for SaltyPeanut come from today? And that was on page like...2. So why are we still talking about it? She was flamed for coming into the end of FFF's and posting randomly. At least that's what I read?
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

I most definitely have not ever done this... I rarely contribute to FFF in general.

ac_in_dc · March 2010

You're doing it now

kate51485 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:5be61065-5968-476c-92aa-cd4b8ffda478">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I do too. Sometimes you have to dig, but there are some very cute clothes in there from time to time. And bags. I have several bags from there. <strong>I just wouldn't register there for my wedding.</strong>
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Exactly. :) I do have one pink dress from Charlotte Russe, I wore it to a sorority formal once. It was bright magenta and showed lots of boobs (hard to do when you have none like me) and twirled perfectly when you spun around. I still have it, not because I'd probably ever wear it again, but because I just can't bear to part with it!

L-Bride · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:4257ea65-fe12-479f-b59b-dee8fddc130c">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh man, I used to love me some Charlotte Russe. No place better to find some totally skanktastic club wear. Except maybe <strong>Wet Seal</strong>, or sometimes Hot Topic.
Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

I just got a flashback to when Wet Seal was Contempo Casuals. Now THAT place was glorious.

kate51485 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:b7f06961-9c60-454d-ba80-f57fac1f8cc2">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I just got a flashback to when Wet Seal was Contempo Casuals. Now THAT place was glorious.
Posted by L-Bride[/QUOTE]

OMG. I never would have thought of that on my own but I definitely remember when it was called that! Ah!

evabee · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:8f5b2a15-af97-4d7f-9007-8581907cf382">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]And I'll add evabee to that list. Chick doesn't have two brain cells to rub together.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>"No, I'm not!" is a pretty lame argument, so I can't really defend myself at all. Plus, I think I've said quite a few things on here I look back on and think are stupid, so it's not like there's overwhelming evidence to contradict you, haha.</div><div>
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danieliza1127 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:2cfa549a-b744-4b06-b14b-a4b6aef3ea55">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : "No, I'm not!" is a pretty lame argument, so I can't really defend myself at all. Plus, I think I've said quite a few things on here I look back on and think are stupid, so it's not like there's overwhelming evidence to contradict you, haha.
Posted by evabee[/QUOTE]

Well that's good then, since the whole point of FFF is that you aren't supposed to defend yourself or try to contradict the person talking about you. Everyone just does it wrong.

tlv204 · March 2010

I don't know, dani, I still think it should stand for Flame FULL Friday. It's more fun that way and usually ends up like that anyway

Nebb · March 2010

I would actually question a person who didnt defend themself when being flamed, it seems kind of crazy to me. Pretty much EVERYONE who gets flamed, defends themself once they find out. I thought flame free friday was that you can flame and not get shiit about it? I have no idea.

pumpkinpumpkin · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:aef99eb6-9074-40e0-b714-b54663d2aa0a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, my bad. Defending P2 in FFF, ok. Defending SaltyPeanut in FFF, not ok. Got it now, thanks.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

Yeah, because what was said to/about me is in absolutely NO way even on the same remote page as TSP. Get real. All anyone said is how they didn't understand where all the TSP love is coming from. She's usually pretty quiet around here, no one ever really confesses their undying love for her like they do, say, Fishy.

nda_roxybabe · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:741f608f-8480-44f2-9fcd-323e753a8b84">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I would actually question a person who didnt defend themself when being flamed, it seems kind of crazy to me. Pretty much EVERYONE who gets flamed, defends themself once they find out. I thought flame free friday was that you can flame and not get shiit about it? I have no idea.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Eh, theres been times when I haven't defended myself. Sometimes its just not worth it. I don't have a problem with anyone so why bother arguing (I do hate arguing)

squirrly · March 2010

Well, I sure created some "interesting conversation," huh? Sorry I didn't follow up - I hate Friday meetings! Should anyone care to debate, I'm here. Else, I think everybody else who jumped in covered the vast majority of my thoughts.

beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:fbc51ba0-7079-403d-bd5e-8906b793d0eb">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yeah, because what was said to/about me is in absolutely NO way even on the same remote page as TSP. Get real. All anyone said is how they didn't understand where all the TSP love is coming from. She's usually pretty quiet around here, no one ever really confesses their undying love for her like they do, say, Fishy.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

True, she is pretty quiet around here now, which is why the random "hate" today for her might have been just as surprising to others as the random "love" was for you guys. Even if a poster has been MIA for awhile, if I liked them but someone now decides to say that they sucked, I am likely to mention that I didn't think they were bad. This happens all the time here, and I'm still not quite sure why TSP is being singled out like this.

goheels05 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:fbc51ba0-7079-403d-bd5e-8906b793d0eb">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yeah, because what was said to/about me is in absolutely NO way even on the same remote page as TSP. Get real. All anyone said is how they didn't understand where all the TSP love is coming from. She's usually pretty quiet around here, no one ever really confesses their undying love for her like they do, say, Fishy.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

Oh, I'm not saying defending you wasn't justified. It totally was. But I know how seeing one's name pop up in FFF can be hurtful, especially when that person really doesn't say much anyway, and I wanted TSP to know that I lurve her. That's all.

JessAndTrav · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:741f608f-8480-44f2-9fcd-323e753a8b84">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I would actually question a person who didnt defend themself when being flamed, it seems kind of crazy to me. Pretty much EVERYONE who gets flamed, defends themself once they find out. I thought flame free friday was that you can flame and not get shiit about it? I have no idea.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I don't question them...I think that it just depends on the situation. As we've seen today, when people being flamed try to defend themselves, it only gets worse.

Sometimes it's just easier to roll with the punches and let it go.

FutureMrsTR · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:1b6248e1-3c7f-47f8-84bd-56aaf9b8fd97">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : True, she is pretty quiet around here now, which is why the random "hate" today for her might have been just as surprising to others as the random "love" was for you guys. Even if a poster has been MIA for awhile, if I liked them but someone now decides to say that they sucked, I am likely to mention that I didn't think they were bad. This happens all the time here, and I'm still not quite sure why TSP is being singled out like this.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

It was more someone pointing out that a poster can be called out in FFF early on in their knotting and then become a popular reg. TSP was given as an example of such a poster, but no one was flaming her currently. I haven't been here long, but I <em>think</em> I remember someone said she was annoying once awhile ago. Hardly a serious flame, but there you go.

beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:7b420bac-665a-476b-8e19-86b783b43f5a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It was more someone pointing out that a poster can be called out in FFF early on in their knotting and then become a popular reg. TSP was given as an example of such a poster, but no one was flaming her currently. I haven't been here long, but I think I remember someone said she was annoying once awhile ago. Hardly a serious flame, but there you go.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]

True, TR. It just seemed like more than a handful of folks were jumping in with "oh right TSP, ugh." Which would imply that perhaps she didn't quite come out of it unscathed and people are still flaming and disliking her. It just seemed excessive because she hasn't been around in forever, and wasn't a villain when she was here.

pumpkinpumpkin · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:1b6248e1-3c7f-47f8-84bd-56aaf9b8fd97">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : True, she is pretty quiet around here now, which is why the random "hate" today for her might have been just as surprising to others as the random "love" was for you guys.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

I can get on board with that. The random dislike it just as surprising as the random love.

Who is "you guys"?

punkyb2b · March 2010

I miss the days of East and Lala.

BBYcakes you really dont sound like a lawyer. Your logic is seriously flawed, and your comments are all over the place. I tried to give you some slack after reading a post on your blog, now though, I dont. The only lawyer quality I see in you is the as*hole reputation they have.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:741f608f-8480-44f2-9fcd-323e753a8b84">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I would actually question a person who didnt defend themself when being flamed, it seems kind of crazy to me. Pretty much EVERYONE who gets flamed, defends themself once they find out. I thought flame free friday was that you can flame and not get shiit about it? I have no idea.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Eh, I'm not defending myself today because 1) I can see the point, even though I think it was only because my wording was off, not my intention and 2) I already defended myself when it happened, and still expected it to come up in FFF. It isn't worth it.

Not to mention, when someone says, "So-and-so is annoying, though I can't quite put my finger on why..." Well, maybe that person just thinks someone is annoying. Personality conflict. Not everyone gets along. FFF isn't about being constructive and trying to get people to be better people. It's about saying, "You did something stupid, you hoar."

pumpkinpumpkin · March 2010

hold up. Babycakes is a lawyer?

beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:11d0fb90-f43d-4592-b7be-b4ad83da3731">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I can get on board with that. The random dislike it just as surprising as the random love. Who is "you guys"?
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

All you guys who are surprised at why people are saying they like TSP.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:86724a8e-d8d9-4dcb-9903-470c86e99685">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]hold up. Babycakes is a lawyer?
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

She's not a lawyer, but she has a JD.

pumpkinpumpkin · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:97120bfb-ddd5-4b4f-bbf2-f4a650f3e1f5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : All you guys who are surprised at why people are saying they like TSP.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

I'm not one of them. I like her. I didn't at first, but I like her now. A lot, actually.

danieliza1127 · March 2010

Maybe I misunderstood the point of FFF. I just always thought it was a place to say what you think and the person you say it about isn't supposed to get all defensive or something. ::shrug:: Maybe I'm wrong.

I like TSP too. I have a feeling there is some serious miscommunication going on in this thread because for some reason people are just blindly trying to defend TSP without even really understanding why she was brought up today.

beatlesgirl25 · March 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1430ad22-58f5-4b5a-b5bd-8c078525bb70Post:92fb00ba-072b-40f7-810d-581e03a6e780">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm not one of them. I like her. I didn't at first, but I like her now. A lot, actually.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

Okay, sorry to put you in that category then. Upon rereading it's clear this is not the case.

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