I have 2.
(1) having xmas eve dinner with the family, then having an open house for all the neighbors, then going to midnight mass at St Elizabeths (buzzed from dad's whiskey sours), then coming home drinking more whiskey sours, eatting monkey bread and opening our presents. Going to bed at about 4am.
(2) My parents would put presents under the tree marked with numbers. NO NAMES (there is 4 kids). When it was time to open the presents my mom had a master list and told us what numbered box to open. So for a few weeks we had no idea who's gifts were who's. Trying to guess which boxes were yours was fun. We failed a lot because they were creative with their wrapping.
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.