I am trying to plan a October 2012 wedding and I only have 8 months to do it all.... eek! I have been having a terrible time finding a ceramony/reception venue and would love any advice. I wanted something rustic and private where I could bring in my own outside food caterer & have music. I was orginally looking at private estates that would host weddings but I havent had any luck. I am looking anywhere from San Diego-Huntington Beach-to Malibu...basically anywhere in southern CA at this point. If anyone has any personal refferals I would LOOOOVE them. Our party will be small, mostly family and between 75-90 people. Thanks!!!