I have 8 girls in my wedding party (i have a big family)...we recently went to try on some different dresses and believe it or not, all the girls agreed on the same dress that they all loved and I loved also. The only problem is that one of my BM is worried that the dress may be too much money for her. I understand this and was thinking of helping her pay for the dress as part of my bridesmaid gift to her. Does this sound like a good idea? Or is it unfair to help her and not the others? Will she feel bad if the rest of the girls get other gifts but she doesn't because I chipped in for her dress? The rest of the girls are perfectly fine with the cost of the dress or we would have chose another one. Thanks for your help!