I am more of a lurker on here than a poster but I just had to vent somewhere...our rsvp date is Feb 10, wedding March 10th.. has anyone else had to field this question:..."are our kids invited"?? Um, are their names on the invite???? No? Well then I guess they arent. Not rocket science people!!! I've had to tell two guests so far who have had the nerve to ask me that...that, "because we have so many friends with kids we just couldnt afford to invite them all and all their children so we had to keep it to just adults, sorry"....these questions were texted to me...so I'm just waiting for the rsvp to come back "declined"...Oh well!!