I am not a tiara person, so I chose a small crystal headband to go in my hair, which will be in a simple "down" wavy hair style. This is what the head band looks like:
http://www.buy.com/pr/product.aspx?sku=222591316&sellerid=1495979
My problem is with one of my BMs. Innitially I was not going to dictate what the BM's can wear in their hair. I have 4, and 3 of them have really good taste about that sort of thing. One is doing a chignon with a small flower, one is doing a simple french twist, etc, etc. But one of my two sisters, knowing the hair piece I have picked, is wanting to do a majorly blinged out headband. It is basically like mine times 20 - huge, covered in rhinestones, pretty attention grabbing. Like this, except even bigger:
http://www.liweddings.com/mywedding/album/i/402028.jpgIt looks like a diva bride hair piece.
I don't want to be a micro-managing bride, and I know it's not all about me, but I'd rather not have her wear the same hairstyle as me, except bigger. Am I over-thinking this and being a diva myself? I *have* already mentioned to her that I would prefer a more simple hairstyle for the BM's since mine will be fairly simple too, but she still wants this. I have been really laid back about BM stuff so far - they get to pick whatever shoes they want (she is doing sky high gold stilettos that put my modest white satin heels to shame) and whatever jewelry they want (she is planning on wearing a "blingy" necklace that is nothing at all like the pearls I and the other BMs are wearing), and I didn't stop her at all on those items.
But for some reason the hair accessory thing is bothering me... I'd hate to upset my sister, but idk what to do. Should I just let it go?