Hi Ladies, I have never posted here but I lurk often and I really like the advice you all give so I hope you can help me.
I am having a very small ceremony and cocktail hour at my parents home (30 people tops), followed by a reception at a local restaurant. Only family, close friends, and their SO's are invited.
I have a FSIL who has problems with drugs and theft. When we visit her home (she lives with FIL's) she will take fiance's items from his suitcase, money left on a dresser, makeup from my bag..etc. We now lock all our belonging in the car when we visit. Her parents know, but refuse to acknowledge it.
Given the situation, I am unsure what to do when she is at the wedding. My parents have a large, nice home and I know their things would be in danger of being taken. Not inviting her would cause drama, and I don't want that at all.