MOH trying to break us up? Long, sorry.

mizri · June 2010

And just how am I to pay for daycare on a part-time salary? Yes, I do use childcare assistance when working full-time, but you have to be working FT to get that. Working part-time and having to pay out of pocket for childcare is pointless. So, unless I can get a FT job, I can't afford to work. Daycare for two kids in this town runs between $150-200/week, pending on PT/FT status. If I can get childcare assistance, then I can pay that much per month, instead of per week. But I have to be working FT to qualify for that.

bablingbrooke · June 2010

Get two PT jobs. That's how I put myself through college.

sapphirebaby926 · June 2010

Well fine then - just don't work. What are you going to do when those UI benefits run out?

mizri · June 2010

Well, I'm planning on being back at work. I'm looking for FT right now, hopefully getting on at the last call center in town, since I lost my job due to the other one closing.

emilyinchile · June 2010

Honestly, I've given you what I think is good advice, but at the same time I'm not sure you're not a troll. The sn doesn't help (mizri sounds surprisingly like misery, which is all you ever post about), but mostly it's the fact that your "real life" is supposedly SO crazyfuckedup and full of absolutely ridiculous high school drama and yet somehow you can come here and have a totally intelligent-sounding conversation about the different types of government assistance and all of the obstacles you face. Add to that the fact that you THRIVE on the drama here, and it just sounds classic troll/AE.

bablingbrooke · June 2010

I don't know, I've known more than a couple of people who are 1) single moms who 2) throw out the "you don't have kids so you just don't KNOW" at people who tell them to get their shiit together and 3) have excuses for their excuses.

I give mizri credit for being open to the suggestions. A troll would not do that.

Licia&Wayne · June 2010

I kind of agree, Emily. A lot of this just seems put on. Oh my life is so dramatic, oh I could help myself but I have excuses that bring up more drama, etc.

It's a little too much for me to believe.

emilyinchile · June 2010

I'm not discounting the possibility of her being real. I just also wouldn't be shocked to find that she's a troll who's found the balance between creating drama and then calming down again so that it didn't become obvious she was fake, and the game could keep going on for longer.

mizri · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_moh-trying-break-up-long-sorry?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:f3f2b548-061b-49ce-ba3d-084fc026740ePost:a4f0630e-a4bf-4839-a27f-74bfca538bc9">Re: MOH trying to break us up? Long, sorry.</a>:
[QUOTE]Honestly, I've given you what I think is good advice, but at the same time I'm not sure you're not a troll. The sn doesn't help (mizri sounds surprisingly like misery, which is all you ever post about), but mostly it's the fact that your "real life" is supposedly SO crazyfuckedup and full of absolutely ridiculous high school drama and yet somehow you can come here and have a totally intelligent-sounding conversation about the different types of government assistance and all of the obstacles you face. Add to that the fact that you THRIVE on the drama here, and it just sounds classic troll/AE.
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]

<div>Mizri has always been my name that I use at the renaissance festivals, since I was about 22, so I use it for everything. It's a name I liked from a RA Salvatore book. </div><div>
</div><div>I have a lot of drama in my life, and I would like to get rid of that. I'm working towards a spring cleaning of my life. Part of me never grew up, and I realize this. I wasn't ready to be a mother, and my mom helped support me while my son was a baby. It was helpful, but it also let me still be a child. I took care of my son while she took care of me. So, now, I'm trying to grow up. At 28 years old. It's not always easy, though.</div>

Licia&Wayne · June 2010

I have to say, Mizri, even though it may sound terrible - I'm glad you and your fiance split. I'm hoping that this is a huge step forward in your "spring cleaning". I honestly think it's the best thing for you and your children. I can only hope that you'll find a job quickly.

tidetravel · June 2010

Good for you Mizri. You're taking the first steps to getting your life back in order, and that makes me happy.

From your posts here, you sound like someone who really just needs to vent, because you don't have anyone stable enough in your life that actually cares about what happens to you. Sometimes, public message boards aren't the best place to do that. I'm going to be away from home for a while for work. If you want to talk/vent off board, feel free to email me. We can talk Renn Faires and kids, and maybe give you a safe outlet for your stress. PM me and I'll send you my email.

mizri · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_moh-trying-break-up-long-sorry?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:f3f2b548-061b-49ce-ba3d-084fc026740ePost:fa21d79e-c388-4215-9b99-c00ece4595bf">Re: MOH trying to break us up? Long, sorry.</a>:
[QUOTE]I have to say, Mizri, even though it may sound terrible - I'm glad you and your fiance split. I'm hoping that this is a huge step forward in your "spring cleaning". I honestly think it's the best thing for you and your children. I can only hope that you'll find a job quickly.
Posted by Licia&Wayne[/QUOTE]

<div>I have to agree. I felt like we were just holding on to something that wasn't there anymore. And, hey, I'll hopefully be working soon, since I have an amazing reference for the other call center in town. One that was recognized by the person reviewing my application. Now I just have to ace the interview and I'm set. Plus, I've got a weekend job lined up in a couple weeks with some family that will really help get me on my own two feet. </div>

emilyinchile · June 2010

Well you're hardly going to say "yup, I'm fake, this is all MUD, you got me!"

Anyway, it doesn't really matter whether or not I think you're real. I have responded and will continue to respond as if you are, and I hope that you get the job and that your ex (which was a good decision) pays his fair share of the bills.

DontesMommy · June 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_moh-trying-break-up-long-sorry?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:f3f2b548-061b-49ce-ba3d-084fc026740ePost:e52101bb-bddb-4d07-b199-2d4595ba60a7">Re: MOH trying to break us up? Long, sorry.</a>:
[QUOTE]It scares me that you have procreated.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

hahahahaha! i love that! and i agree...

MOH trying to break us up? Long, sorry.

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