I know that I am not part of the shower planning, and I am fine with that. But FI showed me the invitation that was made, and it made me cringe. Can I just say this is a vent or something, because I don't want to sound like an ungrateful snob but the invitation is slightly embarrassing. Very poorly worded and bad punctuation etc. Also they made it on the computer which is fine, but they put some sort of Irish pot of gold paper which I don't get AT ALL and then there is a picture of a shamrock (??) and then a random cutesy apron. The two pictures have nothing to do with each other and neither does this Irish paper have anything to do with anything bridal. Am I wrong? Then I was told it was a bridal shower so I only gave the names of my female friends and relatives and then FI told me he was going to be there. Soooo then it's not a bridal shower it's a couples shower right? I asked him and I guess it's all women except him. Is it acceptable for the groom to be at an all female bridal shower? Then the message on the invitation says "Let's wish L and S love, happiness, and lots of luck putting up with each other's annoying habits for the rest of their lives. " I told FI I wasn't happy with it, but that I understand it's not my call. He's not too happy with it either, but I don't know that it will get changed. Then they put "It's a wedding shower for L and S. Time: October 10th 2010 Sunday and on another line put 2-4 pm. Wouldn't that be the DATE and not the TIME? And wouldn't that say "Sunday, october 10, 2010 instead of the other way? Maybe it's just me. I feel like I can't say anything, so if anyone wants to say I'm overreacting, I will be glad to hear it. Because I know I can be slightly uptight, so I want to know if I am making too much of this and if I should just let it go. I really feel though, that my family and friends will be like WTF! Because I am like WTF! I just need opinions!