Ok, I don't really know how to explain this, so please just bear with me.
One of my co-workers has a 19-year-old daughter who was engaged to a guy in the military and had a wedding planned for last September. Last July, they decided to get married in a quickie ceremony, but still kept the wedding planned for September. The wedding was then postponed until this May because he couldn't get leave. My mom and I were invited to her bridal shower last October, but we couldn't go so we sent her a gift. I just talked to my co-worker because it is getting close and I hadn't received an invitation yet, and she said that the wedding has been postponed indefinitely because, again, he can't get leave. So, what's the protocol for the gifts that she received? I feel like I got ripped off. Not that I'm going to say anything to the woman, but I just want everyone's opinion.