OK .. so I've got to ask. Does anyone else feel like they are pissing off the etiquette police on this site?
I made the mistake of posting that three of my big centerpieces are live goldfish (if you hate this fine. I get it.) and bettas to reflect our fish theme (we met on PlentyofFish.com). The fish are feeder fish from Wallys and the bettas are going home with me. My dad's taking the feeders for his aquarium. No real harm right? That's what I thought at least. Wrong. Live animals are a no-no but I thought fish were different from kittens and ducks, for cripes sake. They essentially called me an animal abuser - which is so far from the truth its laughable.
I also said we didn't have a registry. We've been on our own for many years and have everything a registry would supply. In these recession times, I said it seemed wasteful to go out and buy stuff we already had. So guests can either give us nothing and just come enjoy the wedding and reception (seriously - we're fine with that!); give us cash or gift cards; or donate in our name to a charity close to our heart (the local Animal shelter where I got my beast of a dog.) Because I didn't have a registry I got told I was being selfish and money-grabby.
So anyone else guilty of offending the EP?? Or am I just a loser and need to suck it up?