Okay so we are needing to cut our guest list because it seems that we are going over our budget for food. We have roughly about 107 guest on the guest list and if we could cut it down to about 95 that would be wonderful. We have already decided to do no children under 14 and that helped get it down to 107. The FI guest list is fine, but it's mine that needs cutting. My family is just to big!!!! So what determines who you cut. I have looked at the guest list 50 times already to try to figure out who to cut. It can't be friends bc I barely have any friends coming. I asked my mom to help me cut people but all she did was add people. I am afraid to rock the family boat and/or be called a bridezilla (apparently family and friends think i will be one) but one of my friends said well for this you will just have to rock the boat and be a bridezilla. But it's so hard to cut family out when they are all brothers and sisters. I know it will end up like oh you invit my sister but not me or oh you invite my brother, sister and mother but not me. My FI and I really have know clue at this point who to cut and how many people and how to do it without stepping on people's toes. As for cutting the people we don't talk to often, that's like everyone bc I go for months at a time without speaking to my aunts and uncles and cousins.
