I hate line dances (The Electric Slide, etc.) with a firey, firey passion, so much so that I almost did my own reception music to ensure that they wouldn't be played. However, I know I can be a micromanager sometimes, so after discussion with my fiance and some friends we decided to hire a DJ. Line dances have been at the top of the "Do Not Play" list from the beginning, though.
Yesterday, my fiance was teasing me about smashing cake in my face at teh reception, and I was begging him not to. (As much money as I'm putting into my dress and hair and makeup, I don't want icing all over it) Eventually, I asked what I could bargain with him so he wouldn't do it, and he said, "I like having this to hold over your head. I won't do it if you include line dances." My first response was "no," to which he responded in a pretty angry sounding tone that I'm too picky and dictating the things he's interested in helping with. (For the most part he's been totally uninterested in helping to plan, which is fine because I love planning stuff, so this comment really threw me for a loop.)
I really don't want to fight over this, so I'm tempted to just give in and include the stupid dances, but I'm afraid that I'll end up feeling really resentful about the whole thing. Thoughts? Advice?