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caralinda1985
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Drama!!!
Yesterday things blew up between my FI's sister-in-law and I. I sent out the invitations last week and on the directions insert I listed our wedding website. Yesterday I was excited because I had a post on my guestbook.
She left a post saying exactly this "Hope you have a great time, I won't be attending. No one came to our wedding but it was still beautiful, NO WORRIES" and to top it off she uploaded a picture from her wedding. TACKY
First of all we weren't invited to the wedding which happened to be in Jamaica. Second of all FI's brother and SOL had been together 7 years on and off and all of a sudden decided to get engaged 2 weeks after I did. And she made it known that she had to get married before me.
FI's family hates her. She lives in FI's father's apartment w/his brother and they haven't paid rent to him in over a year. And she consistently says awful things about them to her husband who doesn't even stand up for them.
I finally got up the nerve to call her out on all of it yesterday and she completely bashed his family and myself in several emails. She accused me of running and telling on her about an innocent comment. I told her she posted it on a public website and that she knew she was stirring the pot. It all resulted in FI's mom leaving her a message telling her to get out of their apartment ASAP. And now she's threatening to divorce my soon to be BIL if he goes to our wedding!!
Really don't need to deal with this right now 2 months before my wedding. I had to even take down my guestbook page in fear that she would write nasty things.
Thanks if you read all the way to the end. Feels good to vent!!!
She left a post saying exactly this "Hope you have a great time, I won't be attending. No one came to our wedding but it was still beautiful, NO WORRIES" and to top it off she uploaded a picture from her wedding. TACKY
First of all we weren't invited to the wedding which happened to be in Jamaica. Second of all FI's brother and SOL had been together 7 years on and off and all of a sudden decided to get engaged 2 weeks after I did. And she made it known that she had to get married before me.
FI's family hates her. She lives in FI's father's apartment w/his brother and they haven't paid rent to him in over a year. And she consistently says awful things about them to her husband who doesn't even stand up for them.
I finally got up the nerve to call her out on all of it yesterday and she completely bashed his family and myself in several emails. She accused me of running and telling on her about an innocent comment. I told her she posted it on a public website and that she knew she was stirring the pot. It all resulted in FI's mom leaving her a message telling her to get out of their apartment ASAP. And now she's threatening to divorce my soon to be BIL if he goes to our wedding!!
Really don't need to deal with this right now 2 months before my wedding. I had to even take down my guestbook page in fear that she would write nasty things.
Thanks if you read all the way to the end. Feels good to vent!!!
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I feel horrible for them. This has been going on since before I even came in the picture, but no one would speak up. She just walks all over them.
And if you had seen some of the things she wrote about her husband knowing full well it would get back to him! It's really sad!!
That being said, she sounds like a boatload of crazy. Clearly it's not just you who she has issues with. Don't even think twice about her again and move on. You have a beautiful wedding to plan and don't let her cause issues because it's letting her win. You are wayyyy above that
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Ignore her, don't give her anymore attention, she's basically sh$t on your shoe. Remove her from your life and keep going.
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You should never feel bad about standing up for yourself.
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I am really lucky that they've backed me up. I think they're just so happy to have someone stand up for them for a change!
Just an update, last night supposedly her family was going to help her move everything out of the apartment and she was telling her husband she was seriously considering divorce. My FI didn't know what to tell him except congratulations.
Yesterday she didn't try contacting me at all so I think its pretty much over. Must have been all the good vibes you girls were sending me!