Hello!! This is my first post on these boards, I got engaged last weekend.

I am hoping someone can help me with this. We have a caterer we really want to use (it is his aunt) but I can't find a venue that is okay with using her. We are inviting about 300 people and would really prefer it to be north of the city. Does anyone have any ideas??
Ideally I would love a wedding and reception in the same place with more personality than a typical hotel ballroom...but at this point I am open for anything!
Thank you!