Complete Success today at Suzanne's!  I found my dress!!  It is a discontinued style and I got it at a great price!  I will have to get it altered quite a bit, but it's all good.  I wish I had gotten a better picture of the front- but here it is ladies.
 
A view from the back:
 
A somewhat blurry picture of the bottom of the dress (in the bag, sorry!)
 
And lastly, a closeup of the fabric...
 
When I get it altered I plan to add an off-the-shoulder strap using the lace that is taken out of my dress when it's taken in (it's 2 sizes too big)- or a similar lace w/ beads.
Can you tell I'm excited??