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Ring Bearer Boutonniere??

My florists advised against giving my RB one.  He will turn 4 the day before the wedding.  Their reasoning is that he would likely be tempted to play with it.   I am getting one for his 7 year old brother (an usher) and I have seen many other brides from my wedding month board giving their RBs one. 

Thoughts?
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Re: Ring Bearer Boutonniere??

  • Our RB had them, but they are older. Our 5 year old FG carried a little flower kissing ball and did just fine. I think you'd be OK. I'd just wait to put it on him until right before the ceremony starts. Then maybe take it right off after pictures.
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  • I agree with Meegles.  Put it on right before the ceremony and/or pictures and I am sure he will be fine.

    I would, however, talk to your florist about possibly using a floral magnet for the bout instead of the traditional pin.  That way if he does play with it or pull it off he won't accidentedly prick himself.

  • My RB turned three in May, he will have one. If he takes it off, he takes it off. Right now, he wants a wrist corsage like his sister...
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  • We chose not to have bouts for our RBs. They were 3 and 5 at our wedding.
    I do like PPs suggestion of a magnet if you do one, though.
  • Thanks ladies.  I will check with the magnet thing.  I know they are doing that for the ladies corsages (MOB, MOH, and reader). 
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  • My RB is 4, he will be wearing a bout. He also were one for my brothers wedding 2 years ago with no issues.
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  • My RB will only be 2 1/2 and he'll have one.  Our florist suggested the magnet as well for safety reasons.  Honestly, if he does wreck it, oh well!
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