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The Crazy Awkward and Clearly TMI Thread about Sexytime
Tell me, what do you do (if anything) while Aunt Flo is visiting?
I'd always gone with a week of celibacy, but I'm crazy turned on during that week...so I'd like some opinions.
ETA: Blame Tiger. She got me thinking in the other thread.
I french with my man
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Re: The Crazy Awkward and Clearly TMI Thread about Sexytime
Um, hello shower sex! Either that or if it's not too heavy like a lite flow or spotting or something we'll do the deed and then jump in the shower afterward. It helps not to creep him out if it's dark while we're having sexytime. :-)
"His farts smell like Satan's asshole mixed with a skunk's vagina. But it's okay, because I love him." -CSousa
[QUOTE]BJ week ;-)
Posted by jemmini6[/QUOTE]
This. And shower sexytime.
Actually, our first time was when AF was here (WEIRD, NO?!)
You can also ask him if he would be more comfortable using a condom that week (if you don't usually). I've had some guys tell me the blood actually irritaitates their junk a bit- so the condoms help. Andrew just doesn't really care.
FI and I have sex then and it's NBD. We usually will wait until the end of the week when my flow isn't heavy, but we haven't had any issues with getting anything on the sheets.
[QUOTE]BJ week ;-)
Posted by jemmini6[/QUOTE]
<div>Ha mostly this. My AF only visits for 3-4 days, and FI seems fine with the light leftovers after that, especially if I don't bring it up beforehand... </div><div>
</div><div>I'm also totally turned on during that time, but it only happens once every 10 weeks (thanks BC!) so it isn't too big an issue.</div>
Still here and still fabulous!
[QUOTE]I'm totally turned on that week- and thankfully Andrew is totally fine with everything that is going on down there... Actually, our first time was when AF was here (WEIRD, NO?!) <strong>You can also ask him if he would be more comfortable using a condom that week (if you don't usually). I've had some guys tell me the blood actually irritaitates their junk a bit- so the condoms help. Andrew just doesn't really care.</strong>
Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]
BF is the same way, he actually said "it's just blood and I've already come into contact with every other bodily fluid of yours anyways, who cares..."
Also, not to sound like a mom here, BUT if you are newly dating someone condoms are always a good idea, ladies.
I'm with you Peek, I'm super turned on the week of my period. It's just not fair. Minus that first day or two, though. Superbloat = opposite of sexy.
[QUOTE]Basically everything Ollie said. SO and I are not bothered by sexytime during that week. And we basically do the same thing: sexytime and then shower together afterward. We just lay down a towel underneath me to protect the sheets if I'm having a flow that is more than just spotting.
Posted by beanbot2002[/QUOTE]
Yeah, this. For us, basically not a single f*ck is given that week.
[QUOTE]<strong>I'm totally turned on that week</strong>- and thankfully Andrew is totally fine with everything that is going on down there... Actually, our first time was when AF was here (WEIRD, NO?!) You can also ask him if he would be more comfortable using a condom that week (if you don't usually). I've had some guys tell me the blood actually irritaitates their junk a bit- so the condoms help. Andrew just doesn't really care.
Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I'm the same way!
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For the 1-3 days that it's really heavy, we do nothing, because I feel totally gross, and it would be pretty gross. Once it's slowed down, we have sex as usual. Since I've been on the shot, all I ever get is spotting, and we always have sex through that.
I hate shower sex.
[QUOTE]For the 1-3 days that it's really heavy, we do nothing, because I feel totally gross, and it would be pretty gross. Once it's slowed down, we have sex as usual. Since I've been on the shot, all I ever get is spotting, and we always have sex through that. <strong>I hate shower sex.</strong>
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure of your reasons, but for me, I don't like it because it's so brightly lit and there are not all that many flattering positions you can pull off in a shower when you're self-conscious, lol. FI loves it though, so instead of refusing, I'm working on self-esteem issues.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: The Crazy Awkward and Clearly TMI Thread about Sexytime : I'm not sure of your reasons, but for me, I don't like it because it's so brightly lit and there are not all that many flattering positions you can pull off in a shower when you're self-conscious, lol. FI loves it though, so instead of refusing, I'm working on self-esteem issues.
Posted by elannis[/QUOTE]
If you are bent over in a shower all he can see is your butt and I'm sure that makes him plenty happy! LOL : P