So, I didn't really know where to post this, as I'm assuming most FFIL's aren't much of an issue, but mine is starting to be. Here's the deal:
My fiance and I have been together for 3 years (we are recently engaged). It is a long distance relationship right now and his parents are both remarried and he lives in the same area as his dad and step-mom. Every time I visit him, I make dinner for him, his father, his step-mom, and occasionally his step-sister comes with. Now, this wouldn't be that bad. I get along well with all of them. However, each time we do this, someone (usually Dad), ends up bringing up my fiance's previous sex life. This is very uncomfortable, not to mention not normal dinner conversation. I understand that he had a life before he met me, but that doesn't mean I want it thrown in my face. Last night, I had it (because of a different situation), and I told him that I am really uncomfortable when this happened. This is how the conversation went:
Me: You know, Dad has brought up on at least 4 different dinner occasions your previous conquests. It is making me uncomfortable.
Him: Well, I can't really control what my father says.
Me: Well, it's making me uncomfortable.
Him: Well, okay.
Me: How would you feel if every time we had dinner with my parents, my dad brought up all two of my previous boyfriends?
Him: You've brought up your previous boyfriends before.
Me: And you've brought up your previous girlfriends.
Him: I don't really know what the problems is.
Then he changed the subject. I understand that he has no control over what his dad says, but I just don't really know what to do or say. Help.