My wedding is October 11 2013 and my fiancé and I are building a house that will be completed the end of may. We have only lived with our parents so we are in need of everything. I would like to have the wedding shower the beginning of may so I can have the items when my house is finished. I'm worried that guests will think that I'm soliciting for gifts. Also, I have two bridesmaids that live here and I have two that are out of town, I'm not sure who would host the shower? The bridesmaids that live here haven't said anything or volunteered. Thanks!