Relationship poll - (not the one I posted on E)

[Deleted User] · September 2010

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi?
Seeing him in his tux at the wedding. We never get dressed up, and 90% of the time he's covered in dirt. So it was so different and nice seeing him dressed to the nines and looking hot.

Ooh, along those lines. In our first couple months of dating I drove over to his place and was sitting in my truck looking at something. He came around the corner shirtless, filthy, and sweaty, and carrying a huge thing of wood over his shoulder. I knew I was in love then, he looked so damn mountain man gorgeous.

What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple?
something I won't share on here.

What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day)
getting over our past baggage together. He pretty much made me want to live again.

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker)
h was a smoker, and that was always a no-no. But he cleverly hid this little bit of information from me for our first few dates (he was more of a social smoker and never needed to around me). I made him quit.

What do you love best about your Dh/Fi?
That he makes me feel safe. Second, he makes me laugh like no one else has ever been able to.

What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi?
His inability to rinse off plates when he puts them in the sink.

saxy414 · September 2010

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi? Our first kiss. It was so high school and silly, and made me fall even harder for him.

What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple? The year between July 09 and July 10 when we were struggling an insane amount with finances. We're just now getting back on our feet, and it's nice to know we can come together and figure things out and still survive.

What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day) I want to agree with Sarah here. Seriously, every day is awesome with him. Even when bad things are happening. Also, probably our Disney trip. Amazing.

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker) He is the ex boyfriend of one of my best friends from high school. Turned out she was 110% fine and happy for us and will be a BM in the wedding (and I know she's ok--she's the type of person who would absolutely tell me if she was uncomfortable), but it was hard to get involved with him because of that.

What do you love best about your Dh/Fi? He makes me feel the most like "me." I don't feel like I have to change anything, and I don't feel like him being around makes me complete or any different than I would be normally, but it's the very best version of me.

What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi? When he cleans, he just puts things in piles and then puts them in baskets or drawers. I love that he picks up--but then I can never find anything.

aprovencher21 · September 2010

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi? We have a lot....but many involve lazy Sunday mornings waking up with him and the dogs in bed, the first day we moved in together, the first time he said he loved me and when I saw him after being apart for 5 months. Awesome.

What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple? Me being sick and money issues

What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day): Hmmmm planning the wedding, birthdays, Christmases, me feeling better, vacations

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker) yeah I said I'd never date a military man

What do you love best about your Dh/Fi? His sense of humor, loyalty, love of children and pets, kindness and commitment
What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi? Ugh. The fact that he cannot handle money worth a damn.

jemmini6 · September 2010

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi?
The first time he told me he loved me. We had been skirting around the term for a while, but one morning, we were just laying in bed and he put his hands on either side of my face, pulled me in and kissed me, then looked right in my eyes and said I love you.

What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple?
We've been lucky to not have anything really hard yet *knock on wood*, but one thing that was really frustrating was me not being able to find a job when I graduated college. I had literally sent out over 200 resumes and hadn't got a single call. He was very supportive and even took me out to dinner to celebrate when I finally did get a job.

What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day)
Probably our vacations. I LOVE that he likes to travel as much as I do. And not only that, but that we like to do the same things when we travel, we are both pretty adventurous and both got SCUBA certified together. We are actually going to Hawaii on Friday for a dive trip.

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker)
No. He is actually everything I could have wanted plus more. I know that sounds really corny, but it's the truth. Physically, he met all of my 'criteria' (taller than me in heels, not super skinny, great smile, etc) and we're also very compatible mentally (same ideals, same hobbies, etc)

What do you love best about your Dh/Fi?
I love that he's the 'whole package'. I didn't have to compromise or settle for anything with him. I also love that we can have a blast together just sitting on the couch and all the little inside jokes we have with each other that no one else gets.

What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi?
When I just unload the dishwasher and put the little bit of dirty dishes back in, he'll come up and just set whatever dish he is using in the sink. I keep telling him, it's not that hard to just open the dishwasher and put his dish in too, but he doesn't quite get that step.

flyjawn · September 2010

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi?

the day he gave me a box of Mike and Ike's candy and told me to open it. He special ordered a box of all green ones because he knew those were my favorites.
What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple?

him being diagnosed with a serious illness very early in our relationship
What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day)

there's so much great stuff.

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker)

i had an absolute unbreakable rule that i wouldn't date a religious man.
What do you love best about your Dh/Fi?

he spoils me like crazy; not just with expensive things but with thoughful amazing surprises and that's the stuff that money can't buy.
What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi?

he works too hard. even on vacation, he's on conference calls or checking his bb. it drives me bananas.

missy68 · September 2010

You, if I actually signed on the computer on the weekend, I wouldn't be the last poster ALWAYS....

What is your best memory of your Dh/Fi?
Him flying back after I wrecked the ATV and thought it was going to catch fire/he was going to be furious/I was big time injured. In fact, that was the first time I told him I loved him.

What is the hardest thing you have been through as a couple?
From my POV, the "sneaking" return of my depression/etc., and me closing myself off. I think he'd agree, except from the POV of my mood swings.

What is the best thing you have been through as a couple? (not wedding day)
Our first vacation/road trip together and picking out Max

Did you break any "rules" with your Dh/Fi? (ex: not dating a smoker)
Eh, my mom would say yes. I'm borderline, just because it was longer than I expected, but I moved out here and lived with him for almost a year before he proposed. He joked that he wanted to make sure I could survive all 4 seasons.

What do you love best about your Dh/Fi?
He can be obnoxiously "boyish, but he's incredibly caring about me and worries about my feelings, especially when I get quiet or withdraw.

What drives you crazy about your Dh/Fi?
OMG - he loves making odd VERY loud burps. He bed hogs worse than the dog, and he likes boys weekends (they only occasionally drive me nuts).

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