My parents have just been through a really ugly 24 month divorce. Long story short, my dad is a manipulative jerk, I (bride) have always been closer with my grandfather, who is paying for the majority of the wedding, however the groom's family is chipping in a lot and hosting the event at their ranch, we are also contributing but not nearly as much. My dad is doing his normal thing and being difficult so its hard for me to know wether he is going to contribute and be involved or not come at all. If my father does not contribute, my Grandfather will be walking me down the aisle, the most likely scenario, but there is still a chance that my dad might decide to play nice for a chance to do the honors. Long story short, how do I write my invites to include everyone? I need to know 2 ways, just in case, how to include my grandparents, my mom, and the grooms parents (married) or my grandparents, mom, dad and grooms parents. Should I throw us in there too? I dont know!
should I do "Mr. and Mrs. grandfather and grandmother with their daughter mom along with Mr. Dad invite you to join Dr. and Mrs. Father and Mother of Groom" That just seems so long! I've got time but I need to start figuring out this tricky family stuff