I've been eyeing a lot of the shrugs and bolero jackets I see on etsy - a lot of them can be custom made for your measurements which is kind of awesome.
I second having it custom made...it may not be as much as you think. The person who sold me the dress made one out of a jacket she had, and it looked great. (see profile picture).
I would look at bridal places like David's bridal or Alfred Angelo. I got my dress at Alfred Angelo and they are going to be making me a little shrug out of the same material as my dress that way it will match perfectly. They said it wouldn't be too expensive, but they couldn't give me an exact price because their alterations woman was out of town.
Re: shrugs.
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