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July 2012 Weddings
BmoreBride311
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What are you most nervous about?
Is there a part of your wedding day that you are especially nervous about?
For me, I'm worried about the first dance. We haven't practiced at all. Yikes.
For me, I'm worried about the first dance. We haven't practiced at all. Yikes.
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Re: What are you most nervous about?
I wish I was one of those calm, cool, collected brides... but I'm an emotional, sappy, crying mess when it comes to the wedding ceremonies.
Walking down the aisle as a MOH in my friend's wedding the other month was really overwhelming and I pretty much bawled when I got to the end of the aisle hahaha.
[QUOTE]Ditto LADY I wish I was one of those calm, cool, collected brides... but I'm an emotional, sappy, crying mess when it comes to the wedding ceremonies. Walking down the aisle as a MOH in my friend's wedding the other month was really overwhelming and I pretty much bawled when I got to the end of the aisle hahaha.
Posted by k8888[/QUOTE]
Lol I was a BM 2 weeks ago and I was so nervous so I didn't even smile walking down the aisle. When I am nervous and smile my entire face twitches I feel like everyone can see it!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What are you most nervous about? : Lol I was a BM 2 weeks ago and I was so nervous so I didn't even smile walking down the aisle. <strong>When I am nervous and smile my entire face twitches I feel like everyone can see it!</strong>
Posted by LADY324[/QUOTE]
THAT HAPPENED TO ME
hahaha wtf!
Our processional is
FI's parents
my Mom and Brother
2 flower girls
I think that 1min 30sec should be enough for 3 sets of people to walk down the 30 foot aisle. I am probably overanalyzing...again.
Weather is a close second.
[QUOTE]I am worried about walking down the aisle and crying during our vows.
Posted by LADY324[/QUOTE]
Ditto :)
[QUOTE]<strong>Hands down no questions asked is the first dance</strong>. Weather is a close second.
Posted by ceglare4[/QUOTE]
But you guys actually practised! You will be awesome! We have changed our first dance song about ten times and have not practised once. We are both comfortable with party dancing, but have pretty much no experience with slow dancing.
The family drunks..lol
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What are you most nervous about? : But you guys actually practised! You will be awesome! We have changed our first dance song about ten times and have not practised once. We are both comfortable with party dancing, but have pretty much no experience with slow dancing.
Posted by BmoreBride311[/QUOTE]
I know I know but the whole 4 minute song is choreographed, and I'm worried about us forgetting things along the way! And I'm worried about dancing in my dress and my shoes and stepping on it and tripped and ugh!
[QUOTE]The family drunks..lol
Posted by Madisonpenny[/QUOTE]
This too! FFIL has been warned that he is not allowed to get drunk and the bartenders have been told to not serve him more than too. He gets creepy when he drinks and very, very inappropriate.
[QUOTE]I am most nervous about the weather. Silly, I know. I should be worrying about something I can control.
Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
Me too.
Oh Penny me toooo!! Rehearsals apparently are non existant here and my family is arriving too late to do one. Not to mention our pastor refuses to do rehearsals. Lol thanks a lot! Anyway I have the same timing worries as you. Luckily we both have very small WP. You know FI suggested we could do a music walking practice at home using the same length as our aisle. Could you do the same and try practicing how long it would take so you can plan your music accordingly?
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What are you most nervous about? : I know I know but the whole 4 minute song is choreographed, and I'm worried about us forgetting things along the way! And I'm worried about dancing in my dress and my shoes and stepping on it and tripped and ugh!
Posted by ceglare4[/QUOTE]
Aww, don't worry! I'm sure if you forget some moves, you can just play it off and no one will notice. They don't know your routine :)
Glad to know I am not the only one in this position!
#1 The guest list - In FI culture they do not RSVP and they show up with extra people
# 2 Crying nonstop through my vows
#3 Stepping on FI toes during the first dance
#4 The food not the same as the tasting
and many others but these are the main concerns
I am ususally a calm and collected person so hopefully I am calm the day of.
[QUOTE]Crying but also, <strong>I am REALLY worried about the musical timing</strong>. I am worried that I will have to be the one to tell people when to walk. We're not having a rehearsal because FI's family is not coming until the day of. Our processional is FI's parents my Mom and Brother 2 flower girls I think that 1min 30sec should be enough for 3 sets of people to walk down the 30 foot aisle. I am probably overanalyzing...again.
Posted by penny12986[/QUOTE]
THIS! My wedding is next weekend and we ended up hiring a guitarist/soloist for this very reason! He won't be at the rehearsal but since I will be walking down to the same song as the WP, I have to time when they walk out and give enough time for me as well! If it all goes well, everyone will walk out on time and I will be at the end of the aisle just as the song is ending. It's a short aisle (like 30 ft like yours) and the WP and I will be walking to "Marry Me" by Train. I guess I'll have to practice in my backyard as well to get the exact spots in the song for each person to walk out to lol.