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It's Over

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I don't want to go into much detail, but I think the engagement with FI is over. I'm really upset and I know it's going to take some time for me to get over it but I will. Thanks for all of your support!
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  • fpaemp2011fpaemp2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Awww, Purple.  :( We'll be praying for you and him while you figure this out. 
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  • rachael027rachael027
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry. Break ups are never easy, especially with someone you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with.

    This may not be what you want to hear right now, but I know that God has someone for you. Someone who will love you unconditionally. I know that He will put that person into your life!
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  • kellya01kellya01
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    edited December 2011
    Well, as a person who has helped friends through this type of crisis, the best words I can give you are these:

    You are wonderfully, fearfully made.  God loves you.  He may or may not want you to be married to someone, and that may or may not be the person that you are ending a relationship with at this present time.  Remember that you are always going to be God's princess, no matter how your relationships on earth end or begin.  Realizing that this guy may not be "the one" is good, but it is even more difficult to accept once you have become engaged.  Know that the engagement process is also part of the relationship, and many a couple have broken it off AFTER they got engaged.  Once you come to an understanding that this guy is not the one, you have to take the appropriate next steps... and it sounds like you are.  If in fact you and this guy are "meant to be," what you're going through now may shape your future relationship -- whether it's together or not.  Let God guide the healing process and he will restore your soul.  If it's in His plan for you, he may restore your relationship.  I noticed you said "I think it's over" in your OP, so I didn't want you to think I'm "pulling" for one thing or another.   

    At every ending is a new beginning for something amazing.  Let God's peace comfort you in this difficult time.  And if you want to come on here and vent, or whatever else, it's nice to be able to confide in Christians who know your perspective.  

    We'll pray for you! 
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  • iamjoesgurliamjoesgurl member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear about this.  I pray that God will give you peace with this decision.
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  • eagles347eagles347
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    edited December 2011
    I am sorry to hear this and I know that it must not be easy. I'm sure it will take some time and lots of prayer to make peace with this, but God is able and willing to see you through this so that you come out stronger and wiser...no matter what He wills for your life. This may be a permanent situation or something temporary...it isn't our call, but know that you are an incredible, wonderful, beautiful woman of God and you will be okay. You will be in my prayers!
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  • AshNoel8AshNoel8
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry. You will be in my prayers! 
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  • GJones27GJones27 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm terribly sorry to hear this!  If it helps, my mom was once engaged to another guy.  He took back his proposal the day after he proposed (the engagement was already announced by then).  My mom was initially devastated, but she eventually met my dad.  They are still happily married after 27 years, and my dad is a great father.  I know it's really hard right now, but God has someone in store for you.

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  • twihard08twihard08
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    edited December 2011
    Oh hun!
    I couldn't imagine! Fi & I broke up last January (before we were engaged) for a freaking day and I was devastated! I could never imagine being in your shoes!
    I am soo sorry! I will be praying for you! Things will work out! Maybe not right this second but they will in time!
    Takce Care hun! We will miss you here!
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    Amber Dawn

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