My SO passed today

Hazel_B · April 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to comprehend what you must be going through.

mrosenb · April 2011

My condolences to you and your loved ones.

musikbx · April 2011

I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts are definitely with you and your family right now.

Please stick around the Knot, and let us know if there is anything that you need.

Cackle6 · April 2011

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts go out to you and your family.

alanacatherine · April 2011

Sweet Jesus. I'm so sorry this had to happen to you. Wishing you and SO's family strength.

jilld82 · April 2011

I am soooo sorry. I will never even begin to imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families! Take care of yourself.

cu97tiger · April 2011

There are no words to express my sorrow for you and your SOs friends and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time.

manychihuahuas · April 2011

My very deepest condolences to you. You and your sons will be in my thoughts and prayers.

kmmssg · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_passed-today?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:32029edf-e8c9-4c41-afc7-68abc91fff40Post:669420a7-77ea-439b-b0d0-a1a12d68b5cb">Re: My SO passed today</a>:
[QUOTE]i just cannot even begin to put something together for the ceremony into words that is Monday. that wont make me bawl during the eulogy . His mom called me this evening asking for pictures i could offer, this is just so hard. Eventually i will have to go into his house and get mine and my sons things that we kept there when we stayed often. Then there's the issues of seeing if his roommate has the combo to the safe, my engagement ring was in one of the them, which i know his family will give me and its its something ill have i can cherish forever from the love of my life that he didnt have a chance to to give to me:(
Posted by ericsbabygirl26[/QUOTE]

I am so very very sorry for your loss. there are no words any of us can offer to make things better, but please know that everyone here cares deeply.

don't worry about whether or not the words you put together for the eulogy make you cry. Because of your deep love for him. there is no way to you can possibly put together something meaningful and true and then not cry.

I have never lost my love, but I lost 2 brothers in 2006 and did their eulogies. if there is anything I can offer it is this: those who will be with you on Monday only want to love and support you. They won't care about whether or not you cry. They will care about you and the loss you are suffering.

Put together the words you want others to hear, the things that are on your heart. Everyone will be there for you. I am so very sorry for your loss.

callalily13 · April 2011

Although my fiance did not die from his disease, I understand somewhat how you feel. My fiance nearly died several years ago. He somehow got a disease that killed his muscles, which ended up paralyzing him, weakening his heart and nearly shut down his kidneys. After months in the hospital and rehabilitation he was finally able to do some small things and now although much weaker than he used to be he can walk and almost jog.

I do know all of the feelings that you are going through because I was forced to come to terms with the fact that I might never have him with me anymore. If you would like to talk please message me. I do understand how you were feeling during that time and would like to try to help if I can. If you can, try to keep in contact with his family because that way you might be able to remember him through them and the worst thing truly is completely losing him by losing the memories that you could have kept.