I believe

rlr02 · September 2012

(to the tune of Blue Collar Comedy Tour......)

if you do not contribute to the wedding, you do not get an opinion......

achiduck · September 2012

Well everyone is entitled to their own opinion but they should keep them to themselves.

catwine · September 2012

YES. although i believe you do not get an opinion unless you are the bride or groom.

tracey525 · September 2012

And on that note, this the bride and groom's wedding, not the mother of the bride.

(Yes, I'm speaking from experience. Ugh.)

mbuckley85 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_i-believe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:125276e0-926d-4ec0-a1a5-89a8263f20f5Post:26a7921c-f816-44c7-83e4-f46ef3418ecd">Re: I believe</a>:
[QUOTE]And on that note, this the bride and groom's wedding, not the mother of the bride. (Yes, I'm speaking from experience. Ugh.)
Posted by tracey525[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Ditto, but let me switch it around. This is the Bride and Groom's wedding, not the Mother of the Groom's...</div><div>
</div><div>Also speaking from experience.
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mbuckley85 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_i-believe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:125276e0-926d-4ec0-a1a5-89a8263f20f5Post:04e008fe-cf50-45cb-a311-8abf4b24fbaf">I believe</a>:
[QUOTE](to the tune of Blue Collar Comedy Tour......) if you do not contribute to the wedding, you do not get an opinion......
Posted by rlr02[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm at the point where when people offer their unsolicited opinions, I just look at them as if to say, "I'm sorry...did I ask you?"</div><div>
</div><div>It was FI's sisters in the beginning and now his mother is offering her "wisdom" on when the proper time to have a baby is. I don't care if you think we need more "financial stability". I frankly think that two employed people with insurance, bachelor's degrees, several years work experience, etc. have every right to think about having children...Not that we even told you we were thinking about it (in the months following the wedding).</div>

RockstarWifey0912 · September 2012

In Response to Re:I believe:[QUOTE]In Response to I believe:to the tune of Blue Collar Comedy Tour...... if you do not contribute to the wedding, you do not get an opinion......Posted by rlr02I'm at the point where when people offer their unsolicited opinions, I just look at them as if to say, "I'm sorry...did I ask you?"It was FI's sisters in the beginning and now his mother is offering her "wisdom" on when the proper time to have a baby is. nbsp;I don't care if you think we need more "financial stability". nbsp;I frankly think that two employed people with insurance, bachelor's degrees, several years work experience, etc. have every right to think about having children...Not that we even told you we were thinking about it in the months following the wedding. Posted by
mbuckley85[/QUOTE]

As a parent I'm gonna say right now... there's no such thing as financial stability! Lol. The money seems to go crazy when kids are involved!

Alisha9544 · September 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_i-believe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:125276e0-926d-4ec0-a1a5-89a8263f20f5Post:04e008fe-cf50-45cb-a311-8abf4b24fbaf">I believe</a>:
[QUOTE](to the tune of Blue Collar Comedy Tour......) if you do not contribute to the wedding, you do not get an opinion......
Posted by rlr02[/QUOTE]
AMEN!! lol

DanaOcNy · September 2012

My favorite line now when someone gives unsolicated advise is "Thank you very much for that suggestion, we will take it into consideration "

mmmendi · September 2012

I think I am having the opposite problem (not that it is a truly bad thing!).

My Mother is handling the flowers - corsages, bouts, bouquet. She kept saying "Is this what you want?" "Like this?"

When we went shopping for dresses, my sister (MOH) and the consultant kept saying "How do you picture the dress your MOH wears?" I really just wanted her to be comfortable...

FI only has opinions that add additional costs - "Honey, I want a chocolate fountain. Let's do that!"

Preacher dude said "Here's my most basic ceremony - go google and tell me what you want"

I know it is silly, but I am really ready for someone else to be in charge!

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