My brother is getting married next June (2012). I have always been on good terms with him and I thought I was on good terms with his fiancee until I heard the details of their wedding. I have twins that will be 4.5 at the time of the wedding. My brother and his fiancee both say they love my children, and they are the only children in the immediate family. However, they chose to have a kids-free wedding, with no exceptions. I was very hurt by this when I first heard it, and told them. To appease me, they said my children can attend the ceremony only.
(I am not included as a bridesmaid).
I suppose allowing the children to attend the ceremony when they really don't want them at all might have been a fair compromise, except for the fact that the ceremony and reception are at the same site, reception immediately following ceremony. Basically, we will be missing some portion of the reception to bring our kids to the child care I can arrange for them. (half hour away)
My opinion is that if they agreed to let them come to the ceremony, they should at least feed them. We could arrange to bring them home after dinner. The ceremony is around 5 pm, the reception is from 6 - midnight. Please give me opinions.
Please give me opinions on this matter.