Good Afternoon ladies. I seldom post on this wall, but I have in the past. Both the FI and I recently converted, and we’ve never been to a Catholic wedding ceremony nor are our families especially helpful in this area. About two weeks ago, we received the book Together for Life from our priest. We sat down today and picked our readings and who would read them. Then we got to the part of the customization where we don’t really understand. I understand why it is important to pick our readings, but how does the preface and the blessing work itself into all of this? How important is it for us to pick certain things other than the readings. How does the structure of the nuptial mass different than a church mass?