Ok, so my FI dated a girl a few years back for about a year. I've never been able to stand this girl but knowing that she dated my FI makes it even worse. I'm usually not a terribly jealous person but she gets me pretty angry. My FI can't stand her thought...thank goodness. The thing that bothers me is that she is still trying to pry her way back into his family. She is friends with two of his brothers (she has special nicknames for them and everything) and they hang out with her quite a bit. She also spends a lot of time with his dad and his step-mom. They both adore her (this ex sees this side of the family more than I do). I would like to think that if I were in her place I would back off. I try to complain about it to my FI but he doesn't like to talk about her. He already tried asking his brothers and his dad and step-mom to quit hanging out with her but it doesn't help. I don't know what else I can do. I can't tell his family who they can and can't spend their time with, but at the same time I would think that they would be more respectful of me. Am I overreacting? What should I do?